Blah blah blah... help?

[Dawn Marie]

Okay, I'm depressed. I just took it out on my boyfriend and then he just... left. I hate when this happens.

I'm so insecure, that even the smallest thing will make me feel ugly, worthless, horrible... whatever. And I always take it out on him (boyfriend). It's not his fault, I know it. But I always end up doing it anyway.

Does anyone have advice for how I can handle myself... umm... so I don't take my stupid frustrations out on people I love, and push them away?

This happens every few days or so. I'm fine and then... I'm so depressed that I want to die and take everyone I love along with me. >_<

 

[soyness]

I know *exactly" how you are feeling.
I feel the same way. Small things get to me and I get easily frustrated with people.
You know what helps?
remembering your identity in Christ. It seem slike something so simple, but it's really the basics.

 

[goldenviolet]

Blah blah blah... help?



Okay, I'm depressed. I just took it out on my boyfriend and then he just... left. I hate when this happens.
when this happens. your relationship does not sound healthy.
I'm so insecure, that even the smallest thing will make me feel ugly, worthless, horrible... whatever. And I always take it out on him (boyfriend). It's not his fault, I know it. But I always end up doing it anyway.
instead of thinking this way; trade it with the thoughts about Jesus sees you. how much love does He have for you? He gave in His life up for you, and you are His Bride.
Does anyone have advice for how I can handle myself... umm... so I don't take my stupid frustrations out on people I love, and push them away?
sweetheart you are young and passionate. you are learning or you wouldn't reconize these these. go easy on yourself in this area. you are only 21 and most woman need a few more years of practice with emotions/ and work on other issues before you feel more incontrol.
This happens every few days or so. I'm fine and then... I'm so depressed that I want to die and take everyone I love along with me. >_<
you are doing somethings that are not in God's will and you are angry. you also have had some really unfare things in your life, and you are angry about that too? life can full of more hardships because of our anger. go easy on yourself. you just handle being wounded by fighting and biting. you are probly so very gentle when there is no stress? i'm the exact same way.
i'm over 30 and still work on my 'passonate nature' ... God's love will heal you.
this is something you will just need to be easy on yourself about. if you are hard on yourself it will promote your anger. if you are gentle and keep doing what you are doing: admitting it and talking about it with the people who will let you; God will help you work it out. ... but you need help in changing your outlook and thinking. give it to Jesus. love and prayers, dee