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I play guitar on a music team every Sunday. Even though I'm not paid, I do spend about 40 hrs. a week getting music together, meeting with people, and practicing, so it's like a full time ministry for me. I don't mind; I do it because I love it. My problem comes on Sunday morning. I serve God all week. I wear appropriate clothing while doing so. The personality that God gave me isn't one that goes well with the whole 'suit' thing. Never owned one, never wanted to, and never had a reason to until I joined the music ministry. Why is it such a big deal? Why do we all have to dress the same? We have a diverse congregation age-wise as well as ethnically. We're not the same. I like cargo pants and long sleeve t-shirts, our song leader likes khakis and polos, some of the women like dresses, some skirts & blouses, some business suits. We have a couple of teachers who love to dress up in suits, we have the under 30 group (myself included) that likes to wear comfortable conservative clothing. Is it wrong to want to reflect that diversity on the platform? I'm not a Sunday christian, so why should I be acting or dressing any differently than I would Monday through Saturday? If my spiritual walk is not in a place that allows a for an uninterrupted flow right through Sunday morning, should I be up there in the first place? I find that although serving in the music ministry is an act of worship in and of itself, I'm not entering in to the throne room of God when I'm on the platform. When I'm in the congregation, I can feel free to be myself. Suits are horrible! lol It doesn't take much for me to get warm. In a suit, I overheat, sweat like crazy, and am just down-right miserable. They may be good for looking at, but we're not up there to be good-looking. Personally, I'm just not made to wear a suit. Where do I draw the line? I respect my pastor(s) and want to submit to them. I'm just stuck here. I would like to hear why it's necessary to dress like this for Sunday mornings. Tradition ("That's how I grew up") doesn't count. If I am dressed in a way that doesn't make people stumble, and glorifies God, what wrong with it?
I would like to hear boths sides of this. If your response includes anything along the lines of telling me that if my heart was in the right place, it wouldn't be an issue, then please don't respond. My heart is right with God. The way I dress pleases God. I shouldn't have to change myself for Sundays, should I?
Blessings,
Josh
I play guitar on a music team every Sunday. Even though I'm not paid, I do spend about 40 hrs. a week getting music together, meeting with people, and practicing, so it's like a full time ministry for me. I don't mind; I do it because I love it. My problem comes on Sunday morning. I serve God all week. I wear appropriate clothing while doing so. The personality that God gave me isn't one that goes well with the whole 'suit' thing. Never owned one, never wanted to, and never had a reason to until I joined the music ministry. Why is it such a big deal? Why do we all have to dress the same? We have a diverse congregation age-wise as well as ethnically. We're not the same. I like cargo pants and long sleeve t-shirts, our song leader likes khakis and polos, some of the women like dresses, some skirts & blouses, some business suits. We have a couple of teachers who love to dress up in suits, we have the under 30 group (myself included) that likes to wear comfortable conservative clothing. Is it wrong to want to reflect that diversity on the platform? I'm not a Sunday christian, so why should I be acting or dressing any differently than I would Monday through Saturday? If my spiritual walk is not in a place that allows a for an uninterrupted flow right through Sunday morning, should I be up there in the first place? I find that although serving in the music ministry is an act of worship in and of itself, I'm not entering in to the throne room of God when I'm on the platform. When I'm in the congregation, I can feel free to be myself. Suits are horrible! lol It doesn't take much for me to get warm. In a suit, I overheat, sweat like crazy, and am just down-right miserable. They may be good for looking at, but we're not up there to be good-looking. Personally, I'm just not made to wear a suit. Where do I draw the line? I respect my pastor(s) and want to submit to them. I'm just stuck here. I would like to hear why it's necessary to dress like this for Sunday mornings. Tradition ("That's how I grew up") doesn't count. If I am dressed in a way that doesn't make people stumble, and glorifies God, what wrong with it?
I would like to hear boths sides of this. If your response includes anything along the lines of telling me that if my heart was in the right place, it wouldn't be an issue, then please don't respond. My heart is right with God. The way I dress pleases God. I shouldn't have to change myself for Sundays, should I?
Blessings,
Josh