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Film has Kidman
in love with 10-year-old
Actress defends bathtub scene that drew boos from audience
Posted: October 28, 2004
1:00 a.m. Eastern

© 2004 WorldNetDaily.com

Raising the ire of a festival audience, a new Hollywood film pushes the limits of mainstream entertainment, featuring superstar Nicole Kidman in a romantic relationship with a 10-year-old boy.


The scene that has drawn the most attention has Kidman's character in a bathtub with the boy, although the filmmakers emphasize it involves no sexual activity.

But in a screening of the R-rated film at the Venice Film Festival, the scene drew boos from the audience.

In "Birth," the Kidman character, a widow named Anna, is confronted by the boy's claim that his body has been inhabited by her dead husband.

The woman initially dismisses the boy, but she eventually becomes convinced he is telling the truth and falls in love.

"I see this as a beautiful film about love, I do not see it as something that is exploitive or distasteful," Kidman told Associated Press Television News. "I would never want to make something like that; it's just not my thing."

The actress, 37, said she was drawn to the film, which opens tomorrow, because "it is about the strength of love, and the memory of love, and the desire to have that exist forever."

The New York Post said "Birth" has been described as "Mary Kay Letourneau meets 'Ghost,'" referring to the teacher convicted of rape for a relationship with a 13-year-old and the 1990 romantic comedy.

Kidman admitted to the Post that the bathtub scene – which is shot over her bare back and shows the boy from the waist up – is unusual, "but the whole film is unusual."

"It's not about sex, you know, it's certainly not about sex," she said, according to the Post. "It's about love, it's about being ... under the spell of somebody."

Another scene has Anna kissing, on the lips, the boy, played by 11-year-old Canadian Cameron Bright.

She asks, as they share ice-cream, if he has ever made love to a girl.

Kidman said the film is meant to make people feel uncomfortable, "but not in a way where you're trying to exploit a young boy."

With a son nearly the same age as Bright, Kidman admitted, however, it felt strange to kiss her co-star.

"It sort of was, but . . . the first time I read [the script] I really saw it, because when you read it you're not picturing a child," she said, according to the Post.

"You're actually reading a story and it sort of washes over you and you absorb the themes of the film ... loss and grief and the desire for somebody to come back."

"Birth" director Jonathan Glazer said he did not intend to be salacious, but understands he's touched on the "ultimate taboo in many respects."

"But for me [the bathtub scene] was an important part of the story – it was essential for [Kidman's character] to be confronted by that absolute no-go area.

"The context of that scene is sacred in a way."

Kidman insisted everyone involved with the film was careful to guard the boy's innocence and didn't allow him to read the script.

Many of the reaction shots in the bath scene were filmed separately, she pointed out.

"I believe in ... keeping it so that Cameron just thinks it's kind of fun and a job and, you know, he gets to get a bit of money and have a great lunch and then he goes home," she said, according to the Post.

"He doesn't quite know what he's doing, which is good."

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We see Joseph having sensual sex with Anna in the missionary position. The overhead shot starts out close (showing just their heads and part of his bare back) and eventually zooms out to show their entire bodies. We then see his bare butt as he graphically thrusts between her spread legs while we see occasional glimpses of her bare breasts (we also hear both of their related sexual sounds).

As Anna and 10-year-old Sean talk, she asks how he'll fulfill her needs. He says he knows what she's talking about, prompting her to ask if he's ready for that and whether he's ever made love to a girl. He replies that she'd be his first.

We see Anna's bare back (and very brief/partial glimpses of her bare breast) as she sits in the bathtub facing away from the camera. Young Sean then enters and proceeds to strip down to his briefs. He then removes them and climbs into the tub with her, but we don't see any of his nudity and they don't make contact in the tub (but it will likely still seem too sexual for many viewers).

Young Sean kisses Anna on the lips in a slightly sensual manner.

Sean is the young boy.
 

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People really need to get a grip and stop getting offended by every little thing. Neither of them, from what I understand hearing it being talked about on the radio, were naked in the tub in reality. They both had on some amount of clothing. So no harm was done to the boy even though his friends all probably think he's the coolest guy in school now.

I personally think it's an interesting story line. Good to see something made that doesn't have your typical lame lone story line.

CJ
 
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Wow...I'm shocked that others aren't horrified by this! I consider myself extremely liberal when it comes to films...but this is just repulsive. This was my favorite: "He doesn't quite know what he's doing, which is good." If that isn't exploiting him, I don't know what is. It's a strange, sick plot...nothing justifies kissing a 10-year-old in a sensual way...not even for films or acting. I haven't seen it, and I'm open to hearing takes from those who have, but as far as I gathered from that editorial...they are just trying to justify it all...and rather poorly. They act like it's normal and ok...as long as love is involved or is the theme. *Rolls eyes

I think this qualifies as the ultimate "lame storyline." *Meant in good humor...;)
 
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My only potential issue with the controversial scene would be how it was filmed. The story line is the story line. Some people will like it, some will not. I think I'll be one of those people who likes it and within the story line, it is believable that a situation such as this would occur. If it is filmed in a way that isn't uncomfortable or even traumatic for the child, then I'm fine with it. However if they had really put him in a tub, naked with a grown woman, I would have an issue with that, all jokes aside.
 
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