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And just as an aside. neither in the New Testament or Old Testament is there any concept of the average wife going out to work and earning a salary working for the local Tel Aviv supermarket or the Jerusalem Camel Hire business.
The business of the wife was first and foremost always managing the household and looking after the needs of the husband and children. No one ever sent their children to the child care centre to be looked after so that the wife could go out and get a paid job.
But the men of that time didn't do that either. Working outside/away from the home - with the exception of military service - is something that really only happened with the industrial revolution. Before that, everyone lived where they worked, and the work of the household was done by everyone; men, women, and children old enough to have some skill. (So in Scripture we see women working to harvest crops, for example). Children were cared for communally by all the adults of the extended family, who lived together (ie. the childcare centre was on-site, and generally involved elders or those who had less strength for physical labour).
This division of life into separate "work" and "domestic" areas is artificial and very recent; and the creation of gendered roles around it is also artificial and very recent. It was unknown even 300 years or so ago. Managing the household, then, is more like overseeing how everyone's contributions fit together, and making sure that what is needed is done by each at the right time. It's not a matter of being relegated to the cooking and cleaning while someone else gets to exercise his intellectual and professional skills outside the home.
And, here's the thing. If something about the pattern of our working lives has changed, it's not that women are participating in it; it's that it has separated work and home life. So, if you want to criticise the corrosive effect of our society's work practices, and so on, I'm right there with you; but criticise unhealthy and exploitative employment practices which damage family life; not because women participate but because the way we structure work is incredibly difficult to combine with a healthy home life, no matter which parent you are!
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