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Best & Worst About Being Single

sunsurfkdt

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Oh wait I answered that wrong the worst thing about being single...well I haven't dated in 8 yrs...I just last year decided I wanted to again . I kept my mind away from men for a purpose. The worst thing...umm..
I dunno...kinda want to...hurry up...n get married so I don't have to be celibate nemore lol...that's the only downside...I guess...I don't let my mind think about that much tho...I don't think about guys much...well now more than I did before only bc now I want a bf
 
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Wow that's a bit extreme, and so much effort. LOL
How about we just bring a waxing kit and make them suffer through all the same pain that women go through and then they'll be quicker to hold their tongue.
I got this. I used to do it for a living. :ahah:
 
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Best thing- I can travel whenever I want without having to talk it over with anyone.
Worst thing- No one to build life with
Yep.
I can travel but with nobody else and I can enjoy somebody to talk to but no commitment so I can't count on them.
 
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Gentle Lamb

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Yep.
I can travel but with nobody else and I can enjoy somebody to talk to but no commitment so I can't count on them.

That's the thing though, even if you weren't single, you can't guarantee that you can ALWAYS count on your significant other. The only one you can truly ALWAYS count on is the Lord God Himself...
 
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Best: Life is simpler. You just have your own problems to worry about. Getting married and having a family adds a whole new layer of things to worry about, like how your kids will turn out, how you will keep your family happy, etc. When your single, one of your biggest heartaches might be the fact that you are single, but that in itself is way simpler than the heartaches you'll have when you get married and have a family.

Worst: Not having someone to share your life with, and all of the feelings that go along with it.
 
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