Amy, that is very true about Jesus
I think that is better than being a "drop dead gorgeous woman" outwardly because then you belong
only to Him, and He sees the real beauty that will last.
The song speaks to me because when I went to school I was bullied for how I dressed, looked, etc, and it really hurt at the time, but ultimately it helped me to open up to God. I think that such things can be a blessing rather than a curse. Outward beauty is only a good thing if it glorifies God, not self. Too often, because of vanity, it glorifies self.. Also, I can see in my life, when I want to look a certain way or use makeup, it is for vain reasons. It's easy to forget we are made for God alone. I think St Gemma is a great example, she was actually very beautiful but didn't care about it at all, and never even wanted to look in the mirror. She didn't style her hair or use any makeup, and dressed simply. But people remarked about how her interior beauty always shone through. I'm also thinking of Mother Teresa, who didn't fit our stereotype of beauty but I think she was beautiful, in a deeper way. There was so much joy in her eyes when she spoke of God. I think that's what's important and I wish I had this. In the end, true beauty is in self forgetfulness and the joy found in God
I also think that each person is somehow beautiful. Even in appearance, there's something unique in everyone that makes them unique.
I'm thinking of the part in the 'Chronicles of Narnia' when Lucy looks in the magician's book and sees herself as very beautiful, and is tempted to say the spell... but when Aslan comes in the room and she smiles, she looks almost as beautiful as the picture in the book.