Hello All,
I just found these forums yesterday as I was searching for Christian Bellydancers. I don't know why it never occurred to me before to find out if there were any out there besides myself-but tired of feeling like I was the only one...here I ended up.
So anyway, after reading people's comments on the previous pages, I'd like to share some thoughts which I hope won't offend anyone and come from my 20 years experience in the bellydance world.
So above and beyond anything else, I am committed to Christ and therefore have to judge things as the Bible says. It's either black or white, no in between. Based upon that, God has been dealing with me in the last few months about cleaning some things out of my life and "the allure of the east" was one of them.
I don't mean to sound weird or like some kind of freak, but I feel one has to be careful about what one gets involved with. For me also, it started out as just taking a class at our local Rec center 20 years ago. During one of the classes, I looked at the instructor and I felt God say to me that she was a witch. Well I never went back after that as it freaked me out.
So since I loved the dancing part, I bought videos and kept on dancing at home. Over time, I went to different bellydance events such as rakkasah which is the worlds largest bellydance event and others and loved the music, dancing, beautiful items for sale etc. The more I was around all that, the more I loved it and wanted to be a part of it. Everything was so beautiful and exotic compared to the boring American no culture lifestyle.
So from there I started watching Bollywood films because I just loved Aishwarya Rai and thought she was such an amazing dancer and always had the most beautiful costumes. I bought saris and Indian music and films and it became a large part of my life. But the more I learned about the Indian/Hindu way of life, the more I realized how off it was.
As I kept going to bellydance events, I became more and more aware of the fact that I was probably the only Christian in the entire room and that I was litterally in a place filled with women who dabbled in all kinds of religions and spiritual darkness. It got to be a bit scary actually. If any of you has seen tribal/gothic/piercing bellydance then you know what I mean. I started feeling so uncomfortable being around those kind of people, that I haven't gone to an event for a while. I kept having the thought "Be ye Holy as I am Holy". I didn't feel very holy.
After lots of prayer time and seeking wise council I got rid of all the Bollywood films and music and even my bellydance videos are now sitting in the garage as they are in question.
The problems with Bellydance as I see it are:
1) Men are very visual, and are therfore turned on by watching women perform the sensuous moves (unfortunately)
2) Once you start down the "road to the dark side" so to speak, it's easy to keep on going. The allure of the east that I spoke of earlier is so inviting, exciting, exotic, that's it's hard to see anything wrong with it.
3) It opens the door to other people and areas that you might not be supposed to go
4) Most of the people in the bellydance world are NOT Chrisitans from my experience.
5) Does God really want you to be doing this? Perhaps you should be doing something else instead?
That all being said, I do not think that there's anything wrong with dancing in you living room by yourself or for your husband if you are married. Anything beyond that though, I think leaves doors open for temptation in one way or another. The DVD's can be great and can be lots of fun, great excersize, etc., but the people whom you are watching perfom and the music you are listening to while you do it are not/is not Christian. We're supposed to do all to glorify God.
So what I have been doing lately, is putting on upbeat Christian music and dancing around my living room. David danced before the Lord, so I figure I can too! And I'm Having a great time doing it and not feeling like i might be doing something or listening to something that displeases my God.
I have seen all the Veena and Neena, Bellydance Superstars, and many other DVD's including Ansuya who I think is the most talented bellydancer on earth so if you want instruction I would definately suggest those. However remember they are not Christian people. Veena and Neena are Hindu and Ansuya has said in my articles I have read about her that she believes bellydancing can be a spirituality in itself, etc. To further help people to make their own decisions about my comments you can check out gildedserpent.com and ansuya.com and blacksheepbellydance.com and gothicbellydance.com
I urge you to read some of the articles and see what some of those people believe and ask God to show you what you should or should not be involved with.
Once again, I hope I haven't offended anyone. Thanks for taking the time to read this long post.
Nicole