bellies

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

I have an odd question. Well I think it is...but I want to ask it because I am curious....

If your guy/girl (not talking about pregnancy) from food/beer is that a turn off? Is that something that bothers you?


If they got a belly...would it be a turn off?

 

[RobinRedbreast]

He does, and it doesn't bug me, in fact I prefer his build for whatever reason. To each her own

 

[Markus6]

He does, and it doesn't bug me, in fact I prefer his build for whatever reason. To each her own

Prefer it? Are you saying you'd be disappointed if he developed a ripped six pack?

 

[RobinRedbreast]

Prefer it? Are you saying you'd be disappointed if he developed a ripped six pack?

That's like asking a woman who's husband already has a ripped six-pack "Are you saying you'd be disappointed if your husband developed a belly?"

What do you think the answer would be? For most people: "He's my husband, and I'd love him no matter how he looks." But in the back of their minds they are probably thinking "... but my preference is the way he is now."

So is true for me as well, but everyone has a preference. Nothing wrong with that. And mine is not a six-pack. A "ripped guy" has never turned my head in my entire life. I tend to look away when a guy is so-called "ripped" because the impression I get from that is "Look at me, I try too hard" Of course that's not what it actually says, but for me it's just not all that attractive *shrugs*

 

[K9_Trainer]

No, it doesn't bother me.

My guy's stomach is as flat as mine (in other words, really flat and you can see abdominal muscles) and that's what I prefer as well. But I wouldn't be bothered if he got a belly or got a ripped six pack lol. We're both teenagers too, so it's kinda unrealistic to expect him to be in the same physical state he is now 20 years in the future.

 

[ImperialPhantom]

I've got both a belly and a six pack (thick muscles, able to be seen through the fat). Any options for that? (and loose skin, being as I used to be 100 lbs heavier)

 

[miss_klara]

I was reflecting on this the other day, and I prefer a teeny bit of a belly. Not a full-on gut, but when my man and I first got together, he had the cutest little belly - it was nice to rest my head on lol!!! It's grown a bit since then, as has mine... ideally I'd like to see us both lose a bit of weight once we're married, but I don't want him to have a flat stomach!! I'm absolutely crazy about a little bit of belly. Lol. So weird...

 

[cottonmather]

Those are kind words, ladies, but one rarely finds such open-mindedness out in the real world.

 

[NotHardcore]

I really hope that my boyfriend never develops a large belly. It would remind me too much of my emotionally abusive father. He has a little bit of chub right now because he lost quite a bit of weight right before I met him.

I have a really big belly and my boyfriend loves it. He isn't attracted to thin/normal girls.

 

[eatenbylocusts]

My ex-bf had a belly and it didn't bother me at all... or him. His poor tenants saw him running around without a shirt all the time. I'm sure they didn't appreciate his belly as much as I did. The scary thing is that I was concerned this wasn't just belly fat. He was rounded from chest down and I asked him to get his liver enzymes checked after a mono incident, but alas, no insurance and not a priority with him.

Anyway, he was sexy to me.

 

[miss_klara]

Those are kind words, ladies, but one rarely finds such open-mindedness out in the real world.

Actually, you do! I ain't lying, I think that a little bit of tummy is incredibly sexy! I dislike muscles - a little in the arms is OK, but I could live without them. I think I'm basing my preferences on the way my fiance looks, but meh. I literally prefer a bit of tummy to a flat tummy, and I'll preach it till the cows come home!!

 

[RobinRedbreast]

Those are kind words, ladies, but one rarely finds such open-mindedness out in the real world.

Last I checked, I'm livin in the real world And I know lots of people who think like me / enjoy a bit of a stomach.

If you're lacking in finding open-mindedness, you might be dating the wrong people. *shrugs*

 

[Jesuschick514]

i love my boyfriends belly and i think he is perfect the way he is and the best part is he loves my belly too and he doesn't want me to change at all

 

[HisLittleHazelnut]

I prefer a man with a belly. Mine had one then he lost 150 pounds and lost it.

I told him no six-pack though. I have a psychological adversion to those because the man who raped me had one.

 

[heartbeat]

I like my boyfrined the way he is... He tells me not to worry about the way i look because he loves everything about me. and i feel the same way about him.

 

[plum]

well I'm a sizable curvy lady myself, and i am drawn to guys with huskier builds. i still end up with skinny guys most of the time, but i like someone who I won't crush. belly or no belly

 

[BrokenOne]

I personally like a women with a little bit more on them, I dont really like really skinny women it just doesn't look very healthy to me at all. My ex-wife was 5'1 and are 150pounds didnt bother me and Im 6'3 and 220 pounds so we both have a little something.

 

[katluver3781]

My boyfriend is not heavy, but he has a little bit of a gut. I can't say i love it, I wouldn't mind if he flattened it out, but it's mostly a health issue to me. He's very huggable, which has always been a turn on for me, and I know that if he lost the belly and was suddenly ripped it would be like hugging... a rock. I like my teddy bear the way he is

 

[The Princess Bride]

I told John I've love him no matter how he looks, but as he's OBSESSED with having a ripped stomach, my preference doesn't really matter