• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

chilehed

Veteran
Jul 31, 2003
4,736
1,400
64
Michigan
✟253,141.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
I finally saw "Bella". It was absolutely brilliant, certainly one of the best movies I've ever seen.

But I'm slow and I haven't watched it a second time yet, so I'm a bit confused about the ending. I must have missed something about the little girl in the least scene (I'm being deliberately vague to avoid spoiling it for those who've not seen it yet). Either there was an odd time shift, or she was introduced to us earlier in the film and I missed it...or something.

Can anyone help me out here?
 
  • Like
Reactions: WhiteWillow
R

RocknRollRadio

Guest
I HATED, HATED, HATED this movie. One of the worst I've ever seen in my life.

First off, This whole "Man and Woman have a romantic experience based on conversation over the course of a short time" thing has become a subgenre in and of itself. And within the last 5 years, there's been 3 major masterpieces in that "Subgenre", Sofia Coppola's "Lost In Translation", Richard Linklater's "Before Sunset", and John Carney's "Once" (From Greatest to Least). All 3 of them accomplish the basic elements "Bella" was trying to accomplish in leaps and spades.

Secondly, the acting, my God. The leads had chemistry like oil and water, and I found myself completely unable to sympathize with either. The acting was atrocious ("Once" managed to pull wonderful performances out of 2 folk singers, so you can't really say it was good for people who aren't consummate actors, it was just very, very bad.) And if you are going to watch a movie about people talking, you have to like the two of them. I was wondering when I was going to get away from these people. Probably because hanging out with them is so unbelievably depressing.

Which leads me into the third aspect, the predictable script. It had none of "Lost in Translation" 's Hope, None of "Sunset" 's Joy, and none of "Once" 's originality. It was entirely unimaginative, maudlin, and entirely manipulative. I say manipulative because "Bella" falls into the pitfall that has plagued so many movies in this decade, the need to have a message, and be oh so preachy with it. I don't like being hit with a sledgehammer by a film's message, whether it's a good one or a bad one.

My best friend's parents told me I needed to see this post-haste, and they're still mad that I wasn't absolutely crazy about it. I realize it's a hit on the festival circuit, but I've rarely been so disgusted by a movie.
 
Upvote 0

soblessed53

Well-Known Member
Sep 4, 2005
15,568
810
North Central,OH.U.S.A.
✟19,686.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
In Relationship
Politics
US-Others
I finally saw "Bella". It was absolutely brilliant, certainly one of the best movies I've ever seen.

But I'm slow and I haven't watched it a second time yet, so I'm a bit confused about the ending. I must have missed something about the little girl in the least scene (I'm being deliberately vague to avoid spoiling it for those who've not seen it yet). Either there was an odd time shift, or she was introduced to us earlier in the film and I missed it...or something.

Can anyone help me out here?


I liked this movie as well,but the ending really stinks! One of the worst endings that I have ever seen in a film,so nope, it's not you,and you didn't miss anything!
 
Upvote 0

chilehed

Veteran
Jul 31, 2003
4,736
1,400
64
Michigan
✟253,141.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
I liked this movie as well,but the ending really stinks! One of the worst endings that I have ever seen in a film,so nope, it's not you,and you didn't miss anything!
I got it on the second viewing... there was a time jump forward of a few years.
 
Upvote 0

WhiteWillow

Busy motherhood takes priority!
Mar 6, 2006
11,685
8,722
Orlando Fla
✟58,821.00
Faith
Lutheran
Marital Status
Married
I loved the film until well...you know. I was sad and annoyed by her. Loved the guy in here. Who is he? He reminded me of Jim Caviezel a bit. I wouldn't say this was a film with a feel good ending though. My mom loved it.
 
Upvote 0

soblessed53

Well-Known Member
Sep 4, 2005
15,568
810
North Central,OH.U.S.A.
✟19,686.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
In Relationship
Politics
US-Others
I loved the film until well...you know. I was sad and annoyed by her. Loved the guy in here. Who is he? He reminded me of Jim Caviezel a bit. I wouldn't say this was a film with a feel good ending though. My mom loved it.

The gorgeous hunk who played Jose is~Eduardo Verástegui ... Jose

He is a mexican model, singer, and actor.
:p

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0895150/bio
 
Upvote 0