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Being forced into Lesbian rape

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You are a child of God. He loves you so much and does not want you hurt or deceived. This person is lying to you. There are many women who have been raped and after continuous therapy and counselling they most certainly have gone on to get married and have families. Not all men are horrible. Godly men who love God with all of their hearts are out there. Never doubt who you are in God's eyes. He sees you as beautiful and worthy of love. I pray for your protection from this female. She is toxic and she needs to be out of your life if at all possible.
 
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You are a child of God. He loves you so much and does not want you hurt or deceived. This person is lying to you. There are many women who have been raped and after continuous therapy and counselling they most certainly have gone on to get married and have families. Not all men are horrible. Godly men who love God with all of their hearts are out there. Never doubt who you are in God's eyes. He sees you as beautiful and worthy of love. I pray for your protection from this female. She is toxic and she needs to be out of your life if at all possible.
Thank you so much for your words :)
 
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My main abuser was a woman and she raped me. I feel she was trying to also make me a lesbian like she might be. She said that I should be a lesbian because of the men that raped me. She said no man would want me anymore as I am. She said that I am disgusting and evil and ugly. She said that a girl would want me more than a man. She said that handsome men would not want me and that I was too much a sinner to be healed. She said that lesbianism would heal me from my trauma but I dont think that it will. Because she raped me and she was a woman too I feel violated and feel maybe men would no longer be attracted to me or see me as beautiful. I often feel worthless as a woman.
Sorry... Avoid her and speak to parents, friends, or a consoler.
 
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Stay away from those people who put you down and are, in fact, on the side of the devil.

Stay close to God. His arms are always open to you.

Blessings
Thank you much Antig :)
 
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My main abuser was a woman and she raped me. I feel she was trying to also make me a lesbian like she might be. She said that I should be a lesbian because of the men that raped me. She said no man would want me anymore as I am. She said that I am disgusting and evil and ugly. She said that a girl would want me more than a man. She said that handsome men would not want me and that I was too much a sinner to be healed. She said that lesbianism would heal me from my trauma but I dont think that it will. Because she raped me and she was a woman too I feel violated and feel maybe men would no longer be attracted to me or see me as beautiful. I often feel worthless as a woman.
I had a few gay individuals,in my life who tried to force themsleves on me, and as well tried to convince me I am gay, as well as being tautingly beguiled or hecked with that assumption quite often throughout maturing years. I was never raped though, but I had one bi friend try to force himself on me and then throw off of a mini bridge into a shallow pond display at a park, downtown area. It is generally quite terrible experience to have.
 
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I had a few gay individuals,in my life who tried to force themsleves on me, and as well tried to convince me I am gay, as well as being tautingly beguiled or hecked with that assumption quite often throughout maturing years. I was never raped though, but I had one bi friend try to force himself on me and then throw off of a mini bridge into a shallow pond display at a park, downtown area. It is generally quite terrible experience to have.
I am so sorry these things have happened to you :( Your bi friend tried to assault you then threw you off a mini bridge into the water? I am so sorry :(
 
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