SuperBunny said:
Baptists...once saved always saved (with exception of independent freewill ones); pre-trib rapture; cessation of gifts without any tolerance of any other view; men are seen as dominant in marriage
Presbyterian...same as above only they are more low-key
Lutheran...once saved not always saved, post-trib..revelation not literal though, gifts have ceased or not?; men are seen as more equal to women in marriage
Methodist...once saved not always saved; post-trib?; gifts have ceased but free to believe in them if don't cause disruption in church; men and women are seen as equal in marriage
Would you say this is accurate of each denomination in a few areas? Why or why not? What is your experience?
Yours is a very ambitious goal to be able to cleanly describe key doctrines of each of the above.
Baptists -
I was an independent fundamental Baptist preacher: Pretrib, Premil, Dispensationalist, Largely Arminian (get saved by free will but kept safe by God's sovereignty). Baptism by immersion only. Usually democratic rule. Occasionally elder ruled. My experience has been that this is by far the dominant profile for Baptist and Bible Churches.
I am now a Reformed Baptist: Fully Calvinistic (TULIP), Partial-Preterist Historical Premil, Post Trib (I believe most Reformed Baptists are Amill), Baptism by immersion only. Elder rule.
Presbyterians (liberal) -
Some liberal groups accept Arminian or Calvinistic Theology (barely tolerating the Calvinists). Many of the liberal groups fall into whatever is on Christian Radio. Generally, the Dispensational Arminian(ish) view. Led by a presbytery which is essentially a gathering of Pastors (male or female). Church generally led by democratic rule.
Presbyterians (Conservative) -
(Orthodox & Reformed) Fully Reformed (Calvinists), Also led by presbytery (all male), May be either post or amill (with your occasional historical premillenialist), Baptism is considered to be a sign of the covenant (akin to circumcision) and is performed on newly converted (unbaptized) adults and the children (generally infants) of believers.
Free Presbyterians - Gather together a bunch of Reformed Baptists and Conservative Presbyterians that have learned to play nicely together (baptism and eschatology not to be divisive issues).
Many denominations are all over the map doctrinally.
When seeking for the right church you can certainly narrow the field by their titles. However, there are often significant differences that will not be known unless you interview members of the leadership and/or attend for a little while. That's been my experience anyway.
Mike