dAAVE20 said:
I'm surprised no one said John 3:16... it doesn't say "For God so loved the world that whosoever believe in him and is baptized shall not parrish but have ever lasting life."
I feel like if someone's parents believe in believer baptism and that person is never baptized even into his late teen years and he's in a car with some friends who were bapitzed as babies and a drunk driver hits the car and they all die... is God gonna take the one who was not baptized and follows Christ's will the best he can or the kids that were baptized as babies and haven't read a word in the bible, gone to church since they were 10 yrs old, dont pray, or do anything for Christ?
Verse divisions are man-made and although they are helpful in locating passages I believe they do more harm than good. John 3:16 is not a sentence that should just be ripped from its context. In John 3 we read:
1 There was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews. 2 This man came to Jesus by night and said to Him, Rabbi, we know that You are a teacher come from God; for no one can do these signs that You do unless God is with him.
3 Jesus answered and said to him, Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus said to Him, How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mothers womb and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7 Do not marvel that I said to you, You must be born again. 8 The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit.
9 Nicodemus answered and said to Him, How can these things be?
10 Jesus answered and said to him, Are you the teacher of Israel, and do not know these things? 11 Most assuredly, I say to you, We speak what We know and testify what We have seen, and you do not receive Our witness. 12 If I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how will you believe if I tell you heavenly things? 13 No one has ascended to heaven but He who came down from heaven,
that is, the Son of Man who is in heaven.[
a] 14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up, 15 that whoever believes in Him should not perish but[
b] have eternal life. 16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18 He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.
In the passage Jesus says that a person cannot see the kingdom/reign of God unless they have been born again/from above. Nicodemous doesn't understand how this is possible and so Jesus explains in verse 5 that a person must be born of water and of the Spirit. Despite modern attempts to say that the water is speaking of physical birth (as if Jesus were saying that you had to experience a natural birth) the context determines that Jesus is speaking of baptism where water is joined with the Word. In chapter 2 the Gospel of John was speaking about baptism.
God uses baptism just as He uses the preaching of the Word to work faith in our hearts. In His Word God says that baptism, the Lord's Supper, and the preaching of the Word are all for forgiveness of sins.
An unbaptized Christian at the time of the Apostles would have simply been unthinkable. There may have been rare instances where a person was killed prior to receiving baptism but this was an extraordinary event and shouldn't be used as an excuse to delay baptism.
Also baptism is not magic. People do fall away from the faith. As for the kids in the car. It's not about what these kids did for Jesus (we can't do anything for Him, He did it all for us). I would leave the matter in God's hands but they all seem to have been showing a lack of faith. The one refused to receive baptism despite his claims to be a Christian and demonstrated unbelief. The other demonstrated unbelief by refusing to receive the preaching of the Word.