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Ball Python Woes

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Well, I wnat a Ball Python for Christmas- I read all the books, talked to the pet store, etc. I'm willing to pay for it too. The problem is, my parents said I'm not responsible. I am though, my hamster is 4 years old and my fish is 3! I take good care of my pets, Even my horse. I pray every night for a snake. My parents said I might be able to have one if I can prove that I'm responsible enough. How can I do that?? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. :pray:
 

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We have a ball python named Reggie, he's 5 years old and we use frozen mice. (Frozenrodent.com delivers to your door) They don't require a lot of care, but you need to keep the tank cleaned up they can get mites (yuck) and the water dish full.

A hamster who lives for 4 years after you get it is a pretty good accomplishment.. I'm not sure how you can prove yourself responsible for a snake.. Snakes live a long time.. if you're a teenager now you can expect to still have a snake you get now when you are ready to go away to college or move out on your own..

Your parents might have decided there are enough pets in the house. I put an end to new pets a few years ago.. for awhile we had ferrets, a conure, a rabbit, the cats, the snakes and the hamsters (and the tank of fish) it was just insane... we couldn't give all of them the care they needed. My daughter isn't happy that I closed the door on new pets.. but if she leaves it alone for a bit I might let her have another pet sometime in the future.. for now it's not happening

Ask your parents if there is anything they think you should be doing that you are not, and if there is anything they feel you are not doing for your current pets. If they don't have specifics for you they might not have made up their minds yet, don't nag.. give them a chance to tell you what you can do to prove you can care for another pet.
 
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I'm not sure how you'd go about proving responsibility to your parents in order to gain ownership of a snake. I've got several snakes of my own and it's no picnic keeping everybody clean, watered, and fed.

I guess you could show interest in the matter at hand. Drop interesting factoids about ball pythons and how to care for them. Prove that you have or are researching their care and you know what you're getting into.. That's just my 2 cents, though.

Oh, about the mite issue. If your specimen comes from a reputable source and hasn't been exposed to environmental factors, it should not have any mites. It's possible that you've inadvertantly exposed your snake to mites by bringing them into its enclosure. Removing mites and ticks on snakes is a tedious chore. To help you avoid having this problem, talk to the dealer you'd be buying your ball from. You want a captive bred specimen, not a wild caught baby. Wild caught snakes are notorious for having mites and/or ticks and they tend to be nippy because up until now, they haven't had to deal with human contact. Retailers buy wild caughts because they are cheaper, but in the end, you're much better off buying a captive bred. Oh, and always, always, always sanitize your hands before (and after) handling your snake. It's possible to expose your pet to mites/ticks if you've come in contact with them outside and then handle your animal without sanitizing yourself beforehand.

Before I became a mommy, I was a live stock manager for a pet shop. It was my job to order and care for any of the living merchandise in the store. Snakes and fish have always been my favorites. :)
 
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Though this is a late reply I will still put in my words.

In the case that you do get a snake-

I would suggest getting a somewhat easier snake such as a Corn Snake. Although Ball Pythons can make decent first snakes, they aren't always the best for beginners. It is very common for Ball Pythons to become "picky" eaters, which can cause a new snake owner the stress of dealing with it.

Do me a favor and stay away from pet stores. 1-Do not take advice, nor ask for advice from them. 2- Do not buy from them.
Not only will they overcharge you, they are likely to give you false information as well as selling you a sick snake, wild caught snake, or falsely aged snake.

If you do get the consent from your parent I suggest you do a lot of research. Browse multiple sites. Looking up all the information you need to know.
You would also need to have your caging system set up at the minimum of a week before getting the snake. Mainly for the temperatures to get acquainted.
I would also suggest buying from a reputable breeder from your area, or online.

Good luck.
 
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Jynarik Slushy said:
Though this is a late reply I will still put in my words.

In the case that you do get a snake-

I would suggest getting a somewhat easier snake such as a Corn Snake. Although Ball Pythons can make decent first snakes, they aren't always the best for beginners. It is very common for Ball Pythons to become "picky" eaters, which can cause a new snake owner the stress of dealing with it.

Do me a favor and stay away from pet stores. 1-Do not take advice, nor ask for advice from them. 2- Do not buy from them.
Not only will they overcharge you, they are likely to give you false information as well as selling you a sick snake, wild caught snake, or falsely aged snake.

If you do get the consent from your parent I suggest you do a lot of research. Browse multiple sites. Looking up all the information you need to know.
You would also need to have your caging system set up at the minimum of a week before getting the snake. Mainly for the temperatures to get acquainted.
I would also suggest buying from a reputable breeder from your area, or online.

Good luck.

Not all pet shops are like that! I know the one I worked for certainly isn't. I would never, EVER sell a sick animal to a customer. Nor did I or any of my employees falsify any information given to our customers. If we had a sick or injured animal in our care, it either went to the vet or was sent back to the breeder or dealer. If my employees were ever uncertain about the answer to a question on a particular animal in the store, there was information available to them so that they could look it up for the customer. If they still didn't understand the text book answers, they would call me at home and I'd explain it as best I could. We always took care of our customers -- why else would they keep coming back to us for all their pet needs? Jynarik, I'm sorry if you had bad experiences with pet stores in your area, but don't group us all into that bunch.

If you buy your snake from a pet shop, make sure you ask some questions and gauge the salesperson's answer. If they're uncertain about the animal and aren't able to explain basic husbandry information to you, shop elsewhere.

For the best price (and usually choice specimens), go to a reptile show. You aren't likely to find a decent selection this time of year, though. If I were you, and your parents consented to a pet reptile, I'd ask for the caging first and foremost. Get everything set up to your liking and then go to a reptile show late Spring/early Summer. You'll be able to handpick from the newest '06 hatchlings.

I'm not sure where you're located, but here are some reptile shows I know of..

Georgia:
http://reptileandexoticanimalshow.com/ga/

Kentucky:
http://kentuckyreptileexpo.com/

Ohio:
http://www.allohioshows.com/

Indiana:
http://www.midwestreptile.com/

Nevada:
http://www.westcoastreptileshows.com/

Texas:
http://www.texasreptiles.com/



You might be able to find more information at http://www.herper.com/forum/events.html. It looks like they have lots of listings for upcoming shows. Maybe there is one coming soon in your area? If nothing else, you could just go check one out and talk with breeders. Find out just what snake would suit you best.


From my experience, ball pythons are idea beginner snakes as long as they have been captive bred and raised. You want to make sure that the snake you choose has shed at least once and is readily eating mice. If you prefer that your snake eat prekilled mice, you might find a breeder that already has a batch feeding on frozen.

Another great little snake is a hognose. They're incredibly cute and have great personalities. They stay fairly small, too.

I really like cornsnakes, but they're little Houdini's if you're not extra careful. I lost a parakeet to one very resourceful little snow corn and he was still a young snake at the time! He managed to get out of his cage, slither all the way to my bedroom, up the dresser, and into my bird's cage. *grumble* I'm still quite peeved over that incident. She was a great little bird and that's definately not something I wanted to see happen to her. Anyway.. yeah, corns, milks, and kings are all great, but they can (and will) find any escape routes in their caging.
 
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QuietTempest said:
Jynarik, I'm sorry if you had bad experiences with pet stores in your area, but don't group us all into that bunch.

Not just me.
Any long term, experienced, knowledgeable reptile keeper will tell you the same.

On the other hand, there are pet 'shops' that specialize in reptiles, and actually know what they are saying.
Then you run into large chain shops such as Petco and Petsmart, and there are small family owned pet shops that are just as bad as large chain.
 
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The shop I worked for was anything but a large chain. The owners were a married couple and they had a total of two stores; one in Knoxville, TN. the other in Chattanooga, TN.

I agree with you completely on the large scale stores because their motivator is $$$. For our small shop, the motivator was getting others interested in the hobby. Money came after.

I've got several herp's of my own here at home (most of them bought from the shop I worked for). I've never had any problems with stock from the pet shops around here. I don't mean to argue, but that shop was my livelihood until my daughter was born, and I worked my butt off making sure that employees weren't clueless in the fish and reptile rooms.
 
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