Hi, somehow I bumped onto your thread when I saw the correlation between eating gluten free..
I have celiac disease and eat GF every day.. I have a few links maybe that could help you find more recipes if you like.
Try going to
www.celiac.com for some articles as well as
www.celiacforums.com (not affiliated with Celiac.com) - these are two really valuable resources.
Also, the Magazine "Living Without" can be a help off and on.
Making things at home is mainly what you will be looking at if you go on a gluten free diet, but it can be done even if you are Vegan or Vegetarian... and it definitely can be done on a Kosher diet! (yay)
Delphi has a good forum for folks with Celiac Disease that has heaps of recipes as well, and there is one out there called 'Very Peculiar People' for folks with CD that are also keeping Kosher (Rather small and somewhat inactive but I am sure it will pick up with some further interest).
On Celiacforums.com I know there are a few people on there whose kids have Autism or Aspergers - sadly with a glitch on the forum I've been locked out since July

So I'm reading only off and on. I have to get with Al again to see if I can get back on there.
I've been GF for over a year full time, and more than 3 years 'off and on' before I realized that I had to be on the diet or things would just further slide down hill. I'm now in Germany, so things are rather interesting on the GF front considering I don't have as much of the same GF items, and most prepared GF items here are rather... icky.
I've gone to expiramenting on my own to get things that are "like glutenous items"... and having some good success.. I'm hoping once baby is here and I am out of my German courses I can further tinker in the kitchen, as I am actually loving it now that I know what to do with things.
P.S. you can drink milk on the diet, unless you have issues specifically with casein or cow's milk... and if you do have issues with Milk, sometimes you can switch to Goat or Sheep's milk, or soy (unless you have issues with soy), Coconut or Rice milk with rather good success... it isn't the same and won't have the same consistancy in cooking but it can be done.
I drink and cook with milk, but only Unhomogenized milk. My body does not handle the homogenization of milk well.