Attention, Mr. Right and Miss Right. Your existences have been called into question.

[Braticus]

I don't really believe it goes that way. As I said before, I don't believe that God's promised matrimony to all people on earth. You can pray for God's blessings and, yeah, even for a spouse but oftentimes God blesses our lives the way we didn't expect.

I prefer praying for God's will to happen in my life, in general. That includes everything. I don't know if marriage is for me and if it's not the best thing for me I would only end up miserable and make the other person miserable.

I think you do have to give it to God and give up your right to have a spouse. Furthermore, I believe God changes your heart to conform to His will when you simply keep obeying. I'm not saying it's stupid to pray for a spouse if your convinced it's for you but you still have to keep yielding to God's will.

I fully agree. God can bless us in many other ways, and if we aren't intended for a spouse, then He has something else for us. I pray that God works through me in my daily life and that He influence me every decision to His will. If that means that He brings that right person into my life, then thats wonderful. If not I'll be happy with all of the other things that God has richly blessed me with.