Of course what they did was wrong; but that's not the point!
But it is the point. You can't talk about the 3 actors in this narrative as if each exists in a vacuum. They interact. If the Amalekites had sought peace, the whole situation would have been different. If Saul had pleaded for the lives of "innocent" Amalekites, the whole situation would have been different. You're the one who insisted the details of the situation are important, and now you're trying to ignore them.
Nobody is suggesting mankind should follow Saul's moral standards; but if we are going to follow God's moral standards, he is supposed to be better than us.
But you don't think he is. So let's put that aside for the moment. It's granted God doesn't agree with your morals.
And let's put the magic wands aside as well.
Would it have been moral to spare those infants the sword, walk away, and leave them to whatever end nature designs for them?
Are you saying death is the worst possible moral action? Maybe an appeal to those cute, cuddly, Amalekite infants making that pathetic little wail would temporarily soften a few hearts, and somebody adopts them. But the next morning they wake up to the harsh realities of life - scratching food out this land is tough, and now they have extra mouths to feed. Infant mortality is incredibly high. These infants have brought additional disease into the tribe. If some survive, they now have angry teens yelling at them, "You killed my parents! I hate you!" Or, the Israelites kids are taunting them, "Amalekite! Amalekite! John is a dirty Amalekite!"
So you say Jesus was in error when he made those statements?
No, I'm saying the verse you chose makes your point very poorly. I could have chosen one that would have made your point better. In fact, I think I offered you a few additional verses.
What does it mean to "pray for someone"? It means to appeal to God for them. I'm saying Saul should have done just that. But what point does this make for your objection regarding God? He should appeal to himself?
What does it mean to "bless" someone? That can vary according to context. It can mean to congratulate someone. Or it can be an expression of hope - hope that God will bestow good things on the person. So, again, an appeal to God. Therefore, the point is the same as above.
I think you missed my comment about the anthropomorphic nature of these narratives. Given finite, fallible actors are participating in the narrative, God often tries to prompt a discussion. But in this case it didn't happen until after Saul had failed - until after he appropriated God's command as an excuse for his own ends.
The passage you provided was more of a contradiction IMO than a balance.
Indeed. I realized many posts back that this is how you see it. But it does me no good to point that out to you. I'm the bad guy in this conversation, so you're not going to accept those types of statements from me. You have to come to that realization on your own ... and that may have some parallels to this narrative as well.
This is a very Greek way of thinking. Whenever tension or conflict occurs, it must be due to a contradiction. So, the Greek identifies what is true and what is false (right/wrong, good/evil). Hebrew thought is different than that, as is Zen thought and Hegelian thought. There are many different ways to approach the conflict in this story.
Given your position that morality is subjective, I'm a bit surprised you would take a Greek approach to this story. I would have expected a more synthetic, Hegelian approach (assuming your atheism is complete - leading you into secular streams of thought rather than Zen approaches).