Hi, and welcome!!
Firstly, I'm sorry you have to come in here at a time when there is so much confusion and tension in this forum. Hopefully it all straightens out soon.
Secondly, then I'd say you are very much "traditional", as we call it here.
That dream is very interesting. It's so amazing when God can speak to us sometimes, and we can see Him much clearer..Even if it's through such grim circumstances.
Before I became a Christian, or even picked up a Bible..I had a dream of the Second Coming. At the time, however, I had no clue what it was. That was 3 years ago and I still remember it fairly clearly. I've never had a dream so real, to the point I got actual
physical pain from it.
The amazing part is that my friend had a near heart attack when I discribed it, and he said it matched the second coming so perfectly. Yet I'd never read of it, nor did I know what it would be like (apart from movies, I guess). So it could not have come from my mind.
In the dream, I was one of the ones who were destroyed. And oh the pain and fear and sorrow. I don't believe I actually saw Jesus, but more knew what was happening in a strange way. I woke up as I died. To this day, I have no clue why I dreamt it..other than God trying to show me the reality of what I was facing before picking up my Bible.
My sympathies go out to you, though, because what you went through must have been really hard.
Blessings and Love,
Sarah