Why is it harder? What would it take to lose your salvation? What does it take to get it back? God's Grace is a gift of infinite value and no cost to us, the sinful humans--right? So, you get this free, but valuable gift, and its yours except that you can lose it through...what? Do you have to do bad things? Do you lose it if you fail to do enough good things? Is it (7x70)+1 little sins and *poof* it's gone?
What do you tell your parishioners when you are explaining that God's gift of grace is revocable?
No, and I think we covered this earlier. Salvation isn't something we lose on accident or even that a sin or a certain number of sins causes us to lose it. But we can walk away from it. We can CHOSE to reject our own salvation.
So it's not harder because I'm afraid of losing my salvation. It's harder because I'm responsible for accepting God's grace, and for continuing to grow in Christ. LOTS of Baptists, Reformed, Catholics, you name it have the same feelings about God. But in the church I grew up in, Salvation was this one time thing. You pray this prayer that they told you to pray and then you were permanently saved. It didn't matter what happened next. Shoot, that's great! No responsibility to grow in Christ or stay connected to God; because I said the prayer!
So, some of that was tongue-in-cheek. But, I think you understand the point. You're a Reformed Presbyterian so we're likely to differ on a lot of these things; but the basis is there. We both understand Grace to be God's gift, for free, available to everyone. And we both recognize a responsibility to accept it. What I was referring to, had more to do with the doctrine of Predestination; that nothing you do matters it was already decided. And the variation of OSAS that I grew up with, which said that a special prayer saved you forever.
"Revocable" is a strong word. First, certainly, God could revoke his gift. He's God. To say it's irrevocable is to say that God is incapable or not permitted; which isn't true. But, I also don't believe God is a liar. The scriptures seem clear to me that this gift is free and he won't snatch it away. Perhaps, a better word would be "rejectable". In that you or I, as we freely chose to accept God's gift, may freely choose to reject it. We can do either at any point in our lives. We don't lose our free will when we are saved. So, we can freely reject God.
Maybe in other communions, but not in the United Methodist Church. We would ask that of those who we ordain to Word and Sacrament, but we make no such request for simply being a member of the United Methodist Church.
So, see, you learned something about United Methodists today that it appears you didn't know. But, sadly, it appears you were willing to speak about it based on assumptions, an assumptions that has proven to be false. This is why I previously suggested that perhaps you ought not to be speaking forth on behalf of Methodists when you aren't one. If you had listened, you wouldn't have made this mistake and revealed your ignorance on this matter.
To piggy back on this, because I realize now how little of Methodism is actually known, as it seems, by Skypair (he didn't seem to be aware of connectionalism, maybe even under the assumption that we were a lay-led denomination that hired it's own Pastors and Pastors were Ordained in the local church, etc. etc.)
Here's what I, or any other United Methodist Clergy person, would publicly ask of an adult who could answer for themselves being baptized;
It's important to note, first, that a lot is said 'before this' in the liturgy that is prescribed for this use. Baptism of adults who can answer themselves is called the Baptismal Convenant III
1) Do you truly and earnestly repent of your sins?
2) Do you believe in God the Father?
3) Do you believe in Jesus Christ?
4) Do you believe in the Holy Spirit?
5) Do you receive and profess the Christian faith as contained in the scriptures of the Old and New Testament?
6) Do you promise, according to the grace given to you, to keep God's holy will and commandments, and walk in the same all the days of your life, as faithful member(s) of Christ's Holy Church?
7) Do you desire to be baptized in this faith?
These are the questions asked of those who can answer for themselves. Though, by and large, we baptize children of faithful baptized parents, the questions we ask are similar and addressed to the parents and not the children. When the children get older, we ask them those 6 questions (the 7th, obviously, omitted as we do not re-baptize), publicly in front of the church.
So, as GraceSeeker said; we are not confessional. In fact, I don't really know many churches who couldn't use our Baptismal liturgy and still fit theologically with their church. That's because we're not Baptizing into the United Methodist Church, but into Christ's holy universal church. They might join as members of the UMC; but they are Baptized into Christ's church.
If you were Baptized a Roman Catholic, a Baptist, a Presbyterian; in any Christian tradition that invoked the Holy Spirit; your Baptism is recognized in the UMC as a Christian Baptism; and we will not (It's absolutely prohibited) re-baptize you.