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Ask Drew!!

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How many times have you been in love and/or thought you were in love?

I had a crush that I never told the girl that I cared about her. A childhood friend of mine and then the family moved to Texas and our family and theirs are still close and so on, but I decided to let go of that crush. My first love experience was in 2006 and I probably haven fallen in love twice, been involved twice almost three times. But alas I’ve been broken hearted more times now and my heart smashed it is kind-a hard how and or who will have my broken heart restore it and be ‘the one’ my soulmate L

I can easily fall for someone but I have controlled it enough to not be a complete idiot around them. Isn’t wise to tell every gurl that you meet that you like them!!!

What's the number reason you want to get married?

Most guys will say to finally have sex, right? Well yes I am a guy and yeah after 23 almost 24 years yeah I do have hormones and uh huh it is difficult being almost 24 virgin but alas saving my first time for my precious wife of mine.

My real reason to getting’ married is to be loved. Not to be alone for the rest of my life as well as share life’s experiences with someone that you said ‘I do’ as well as to have an intimate spiritual healthy relationship with your life partner. To have a family with and surely I know that marriage takes a lifetime commitment, parenting takes in effect when you realized that little baby depends on you for the rest of your life. And just grow old with and so on. Romance isn’t dead when you say ‘I do’ and people that say just need a overall of their marriage right now. I will actually enjoy still romancing my wife after I said ‘I do’ and it doesn’t mean always making love either geeeesh…

But I want to continue my family line tooooooo!!!

How do you deal with heartbreak?

I don’t do well in dealing with heartbreak. It is first crying at night, then denial, and then being frustrated with the Lord to WHY ME again, and then coping after a few months…but the memory still there sadly…I still remember their names…

How do you deal with the loneliness of not having a SO?

Not really well. I’m fine one day and then the holiday hits and I’m extremely lonely. And right now I’m lonely sooo not doing so well. And I’m behind in my collection which just gets me down…

If you could see the girl you're gonna marry for 5 mins only what would you tell her?

That I love you, miss you, and wish that we can be together now…

And probably ask if she wants grandchildren to amuse my mother geeesh…

What do you like to do to clear your head?

Listen to music, do something else for awhile..

Do you or have you ever written letters and/or poems to your future wife?

Yes, I have consider writing a complete collection of poems for my future wife. I don’t know why though but I want to do this for some time now!!! But I fear that I would lose the collection or someone to read them because it probably going to be very personal and intimate for her eyes only :blush:

Are you reading my mind ^_^ How did you know I wanted to write a collection of poems as well as other questions…
 
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What's that supposed to mean? :D They were good answers!

I am agreeing with you with my questions that I wrote eariler ^_^

Yeah I know I'm a little weird :)

But i luv to say uh huh and ^_^

Regards,
Drew
 
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If you could be anywhere in the world right now where would you be and why?

When did you start writing?

If you could go back and relive one day what day would it be and why?

Started Writing:

Around early 2000..My brother inspirated me to start this hobby sooo I decided well if my brother can do this truly I can do it better!! I started writing poetry in 2006 though. I still have my first book idea in my head still untitled: The Journey. A trilogy of adventure/fantasy books.

Relive one day:

Either February 3rd, 2007 so that I can bump into you and we could have been friends for over a year now.

Or

July 2007 to actually talk sum sense into a friend of mine that needed it the most. Sadly, I failed though :(

Anywhere:

Well, counting the fact that I have these two friends in the Carolina states. Surely I would luv to see them and just make sum impact in their lives in a good way :)

Regards,
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Started Writing:

Around early 2000..My brother inspirated me to start this hobby sooo I decided well if my brother can do this truly I can do it better!! I started writing poetry in 2006 though. I still have my first book idea in my head still untitled: The Journey. A trilogy of adventure/fantasy books.

Relive one day:

Either February 3rd, 2007 so that I can bump into you and we could have been friends for over a year now.

Or

July 2007 to actually talk sum sense into a friend of mine that needed it the most. Sadly, I failed though :(

Anywhere:

Well, counting the fact that I have these two friends in the Carolina states. Surely I would luv to see them and just make sum impact in their lives in a good way :)

Regards,
Drew


Awww:hug: That is really sweet Drew! Thank you!
 
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Did you meet this other Carolina friend online as well?

What's the best vacation you've ever been on?

Who would you consider your best friend?

What do you think makes a best friend?


Carolina:

Yeah she is on CF as well..I dunno why I'm making friends in the Carolina states. It is one of those things like BAM I have friends in Carolina :) I don't mind either though ^_^

Don't be jealous ^_^

Best Vacation: Either the Oregon coast or Disneyworld!!

Consider Your Best Friend:

Well counting the fact that I have many friends it is kind-a hard to consider them all best friends though. But alas I'm the nice guy ^_^

Makes Best Friend:

Anyone that is there when you need them, caring, patience, willing to listen, and accept you for you and nothing more..

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Carolina:

Yeah she is on CF as well..I dunno why I'm making friends in the Carolina states. It is one of those things like BAM I have friends in Carolina :) I don't mind either though

Don't be jealous ^_^

Best Vacation: Either the Oregon coast or Disneyworld!!

Consider Your Best Friend:

Well counting the fact that I have many friends it is kind-a hard to consider them all best friends though. But alas I'm the nice guy ^_^

Makes Best Friend:

Anyone that is there when you need them, caring, patience, willing to listen, and accept you for you and nothing more..

Regards,
Drew


lol! "Carolina Girls.....best in the world":)

I've never been to disneyworld....yeah I'm sad I know.:sigh:

Lucky you......I have only one close friend.
 
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lol! "Carolina Girls.....best in the world":)

I've never been to disneyworld....yeah I'm sad I know.:sigh:

Lucky you......I have only one close friend.

*ahem* correction you now have 2 close friends :hug:

Regards,
Drew
 
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How did you find CF and why did you join?

I originally found this site around October/November 2006 with the username DrewandSarah. Sadly, the relationship went down the toilet and I was getting advice about *ahem* future marriage advice about certain things *ahem*

And then around June 2007 I decided to re-join the website again as ChristianDrew. I wanted to be named Captain Nemo though ^_^

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I originally found this site around October/November 2006 with the username DrewandSarah. Sadly, the relationship went down the toilet and I was getting advice about *ahem* future marriage advice about certain things *ahem*

And then around June 2007 I decided to re-join the website again as ChristianDrew. I wanted to be named Captain Nemo though ^_^

Regards,
Drew


Ya know what's weird....every guy I've met online has liked/or dated a sarah.:confused: Weird.
 
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What was the longest amount of hours in a day you have ever worked on any job?

Were you tired?

If you had to sacrifice a job you love a lot for your wife, would you?

It was apparently at the motel/hotel gig that I had..

Yeah I was tired..

Well I think the wife would love me to have a job but if the job was keeping me away more and more away from my wife and family then I probably switch jobs even the one that I love the most...

Regards,
Drew
 
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