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mina

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hmmm i pray and ask God to change them. Then i wait and either He helps me live with it or He orhestrates the change. I heard once if you have all you can do to change a situation and prayed all that you can pray, then it's time to trust that God hears and has it.
 
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If you had to choose a personal body guard from these two guys, which one would you pick and why?


1.
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2.
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mina

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1. my mom- she has been through a lot and overcome a lot. She was a wonderful momma and she truly knew how to parent kids. I only hope to be like her.

2. a teacher from high school- She has had the greatest impact on my faith of any human i know. When she found out i had gotten saved (at 14) she took me to church. She taught me how to simply pray. She showed me how to live out your faith in the world. I would not be the person i am today if not for her taking an intrest in me and discipiling me and believing in me. I still get together with her at least once a year.

and eventhough it may sound more corny
3. Hannah- from the Bible. She inspires me. that God does not condemn or hate you for wanting things in your own life. that He does hear prayer and often changes the situation.
 
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Do you now, or have you ever known a person with a Superman Complex?

The definition:

A Superman Complex is an unhealthy sense of responsibility, or the belief that everyone else lacks the capacity to successfully perform any task. Such a person may feel a constant need to "save" others.
The expression seems to have been first been used by Dr. Fredric Wertham in his book and his testimony before the Senate Subcommittee on Juvenile Deliquency. He claimed that children reading Superman comic books were exposed to "fantasies of sadistic joy in seeing other people punished over and over again while you yourself remain immune."
 
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hmmm, i have known people that think they are the only people that can do everything right and everyone else is wrong. It's exhausting to be around them. one of my former roomates was like this. I felt like nothing i did was right around her and sometimes i still feel like that, so i don't actively be around her anymore.
 
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If you had an opportunity to get a "sneak peek" at your future spouse, with the condition that if you did so, you wouldn't be allowed to meet him until 5 years later than your originally scheduled meeting date, would you do it?

Why or why not?
 
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