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You've fallen in love with a man and in this case, you speak of marriage often. It's been 2 years. He's not perfect, but he's definitely the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Only thing is... he's $80,000 in debt! You've heard stories of other women making their boyfriend pay off their debt before they get engaged but $80k is no laughing matter and would take many years to pay down. He proposes... what would you say? Keeping in mind that you'd like to quit your job someday and start a family, would you stay at your work a little longer to help him pay down his debt?
 
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It's 2 a.m. You're at home, in bed with your husband. You hear the baby start to cry on the baby monitor. It had been a long, exhausting day for you. Would you nudge your husband and tell him to go feed the baby, or would you get up and do it yourself?
If he was awake, i'd hope he'd offer, but since guys aren't that great at those type of things and certianly can't read my mind , i might be like "your turn" or "can you help?", but if he was asleep i'd go. I'd acutally want a baby nearby.
 
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You've been dating someone for well over a year.. You'd like to spend the rest of your life with him. The only problem is that you haven't spoken about marriage since you first started dating. It's awkward. How would you broach the topic? Would you propose?
hmmm i might be direct with him- ask him where this is going, that i love him, etc... If it's that awkward then i dunno- it would be weird- i'd want to marry someone i could talk about anything with.
 
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You've fallen in love with a man and in this case, you speak of marriage often. It's been 2 years. He's not perfect, but he's definitely the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Only thing is... he's $80,000 in debt! You've heard stories of other women making their boyfriend pay off their debt before they get engaged but $80k is no laughing matter and would take many years to pay down. He proposes... what would you say? Keeping in mind that you'd like to quit your job someday and start a family, would you stay at your work a little longer to help him pay down his debt?
hmmm i guess a lot of it dedpends on why he is in debt and does he have a plan. When you marry someone their debt becomes your debt in a sense so if i was pretty darn sure he was the one, i'd try to help.
 
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Jeans and a T, casual or business casual clothing on a first date?

If you dress for the occasion, let's say you are going to the Georgia Aquarium and then Macaroni Grill.
hmmm casual comfortable- like dressy/jeans or like a step above jeans.
 
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Have you ever been surprised and taken out on a romantic date? If so, where and what did you do? no :cry:

Describe your dream home :). oooooo an older house- i love older floor plans! I would like to restore an older home. I would like something that has charm and history to it. High ceilings, fireplaces, wood floors, old windows, etc.....

Which do you prefer, walking on the beach or walking in a park? ooooo beach!!!! but i guess it all depends on the person you are with


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Any weekend plans? nope not really

For your Sunday Bible study, is it a group discussion or more like a lecture? lecture

Does your church hold communion? How often? What does it pass out? yes, i'm not sure how often, they pass out little wafers and grape juice
 
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Well, what attracted you to him initially? he was a nice person and i liked his looks
What did you find disappointing about him? he got a girlfriend and makes out with her at church and has his hands all over her

Did you end up seeing Bella? I think it did pretty well, so it will probably have wider distribution soon i dont think it's playing here
 
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