Hi there,
We are called to love one another even our enemies but you do not have to like the sin in others such as pride or arrogance.
Love prays for its enemies, hates sin but still loves the sinner. It forgives. It lays its life down for its friends and cares about people. It also convicts and corrects others gently. But it doesn't have to be friends with them or fellowship with them.
Love also knows when to speak and when not to speak. It is disciplined in its response to evil. (Need to practice this one myself)
Jesus loved everyone but withdrew at times from the people during ministry.
Today's culture says love is tolerance, which creates doormats and people pleasing.
Hope this helps you in some way.
But is today's culture speaking Gods words? Gods rules? I am not perfect, no one is, I'm just making a point, There is Today's culture, Then there are Christians. That's two different things.
I had a friend once who often used a term to describe secular people. He called them worldly. We can hop on all the bandwagons and agree with all the modern political culture we want. But, We can't do what we wish and say it was Gods word though. I think people would be wise to always consider. There is what people think. Then there is what God thinks. and sometimes Man will pridefully choose to perform his own will and actions, And if an issue is something god hasn't addressed, Then he hasn't addressed that issue in his word. and we really can't give proper advice on such issues.
Ultimately, What I'm getting at here is. I've been online for years and years and years, I'm not some uninformed creature who has never studied social interaction. People often tend to rush in and try to help in situations they are woefully underqualified to give advice for.
If someone is underqualified to give advice, very often they will give the wrong or improper advice. Pride is the issue here, Everyone wants to be the one person who gave this person the advice they needed. But no one here is humble enough to admit they are not a qualified marriage or griefing counselor, are they?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending people mistreating people. That's not it.
I'm defending the idea that people "Assume a lot of things are God's will" When his word says no such thing. it "never says anywhere in the bible to interject one's opinion onto another persons marriage. Ever.
could lead to homewrecking. Homewreckers
Family is not something that is supposed to be easily disposable, People say if he loves her, He would not treat her that way, But, If she loves him, She shouldn't leave him. There are many ways to approach this and not be a homewrecker. The family unit is sacred, Are you important and enlightened enough, Are you ordained to administer Advice about what God want's her to do concerning her marriage? As I said, I'm not perfect, But, I wouldn't put myself on the line like that, Offering advice about what someone should so with something so sacred as their marriage in light of how important a topic it is, someone would think to tell the person to seek the proper help would be the wiser move.