I am not trying to debate , or break rules so I will carefully try to respond.
What you stated is not what Ephesians tells us.
Ephesians 2: 8. For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Truly this is the mercy of God , who would not have any perish.
John 3: 14. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: 15. That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. 16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
God is no respector of persons.
Would God not have offered salvation to these people Paul is teaching about?
Romans 1: 19. Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them. 20. For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: 21. Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22. Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23. And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
I suppose it comes down to this age old debate:
Is God's grace impossible to resist?
If it is impossible to resist , and still people walk away and suffer Hell, then why is it offered to all mankind?
Christ in his abounding love , Preached to the lost all the way back to the days of Noah !
He descended then raised in victory over death Hell, and the grave.
Ephesians 4: 7. But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ. 8. Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men. 9. (Now that he ascended, what is it but that he also descended first into the lower parts of the earth? 10. He that descended is the same also that ascended up far above all heavens, that he might fill all things.)
Our difference is so simple yet , we are miles apart on one thing.
Irresistible Grace ,and Predestination.
Under the new Covenant we have God providing a way for all mankind to be joined in the Body of Christ.
It is displeasure to God when people walk away, then He turns away from them forever.
But I do not believe there can be goodness in God's eyes for those lost in sin, but I do believe His love provides a way of adoption in Christ.
John 5: 20. For the Father loveth the Son, and sheweth him all things that himself doeth: and he will shew him greater works than these, that ye may marvel. 21. For as the Father raiseth up the dead, and quickeneth them; even so the Son quickeneth whom he will. 22. For the Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son: 23. That all men should honour the Son, even as they honour the Father. He that honoureth not the Son honoureth not the Father which hath sent him. 24. Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life.
He that believth on Him that sent me, clearly shows us free will.
I could provide many Scriptures that have a cause and effect meaning, but we agree to disagree and in the end it will not matter.