Seriously guy, if you really care to find my answers to these, they are pretty easy to find. Click my name and search through my posts. It will take you far less time to find a variety of posts on the subject than it would take me to type up answers all over again to the same issues.
You may call it evasion, and I'm OK with that; I don't really care. I quit thinking that arguing with someone on the internet ever does any ounce of good, because my experience shows that every minute I spend typing up a response is usually infinitely better spent doing anything else. I respond to messages in hopes that people might be blessed or see truth, or see a new truth. I cannot convince someone who is merely here to prove how right he is.
I cannot judge your attitudes or intentions, but your words can only lead me to believe that you are trying to trap me. Your intentions, therefore, are neither righteous nor good. My intention is only to assure you that Calvinism is a God-glorifying recognition of God's truth, as far as I know and have studied the Bible. If you don't believe that, that's OK; some people take years to come to this knowledge and the ability to give up mankind's grip on free will and self-exaltation. It took me years, so I will give the same courtesy to anyone and everyone else.
But I cannot force you to see anything you do not want to see.
EDIT: And, I intend no offense when I say this, you would be extremely haughty to even imagine that you are even one of the first 20 people to bring these issues up; in fact, you are one of literally hundreds of people I have debated and discussed this issue with. It would be nothing short of prideful to think that you have somehow "trapped me" and that my argument would fall to pieces so easily. Please have some respect.