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tartanarmy

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Does age really matter in a relationship? My heart is breaking...:cry:

My parents are 12 years apart. Right now he is 80 and she is 68. They have been married 36 wonderful years this month.

I would say age can get in the way in the kind of situation where one is 18 and the other 30. Obviously there is a huge maturity gap not just an age gap. (Unless of course youre a very mature 18):hug:
 
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fivepointTULIP

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I agree with those who say it matters less as you grow in maturity. It mattered to me. But I was the scenario above where I was 18 and he was 35.

It seems like the 1/2 your age +7 seems to average out well as to figuring an acceptable gap.
 
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