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Are we really thinking everything through?

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He is not saying marital acts should not be open to procreation in that passage. :holy:

The only thing he mentions is ones burning and that its would be better to marry then to burn, for example my sisters case, married so they would not burn, but now shes allergic to his "you know what", the condom would still be able to satisfy any burning either of them have, but making the condom a sin would make them no better then unmarried and burning when such a simple thing takes care of the problem for the both of them.
 
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Is being artificially inseminated ok with the church, or no in this case? Or should I ask someone else?
I think you should ask someone else
(someone with more authority ✟ )
 
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The only thing he mentions is ones burning and that its would be better to marry then to burn, for example my sisters case, married so they would not burn, but now shes allergic to his "you know what", the condom would still be able to satisfy any burning either of them have, but making the condom a sin would make them no better then unmarried and burning when such a simple thing takes care of the problem for the both of them.
ouch.
 
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I am not aware of anything by the Church that makes this claim. Faith is not independent of reality.
I was clear in my OP that was a statement made by a Catholic. I didn't claim to have been fresh off a phone call with the Pope.


Like most arguments against Catholicism, it argues against their own misunderstanding of Catholicism, not what the Church actually teaches.
Condoms are not a problem because they prevent a life. Abstaining from sex prevents life, but that is not a sin. You really ought to understanding the Church's position before criticizing it.
"isn't open to conception blah blah blah. Same difference. Just like the hypocracy of the NFP teaching being A-OK.

I know what is taught. I just don't cover up the reality of it with weasel-speak.
on a more individual level, a couple who it was deadly to the wife to conceive, but when he sterilized himself so they could enjoy at least a mostly normal marriage, excommunication was the result.

I note that you ignored this entirely. an uncomfortable example, perhaps?


Again, you don't understand the Catholic position and yet you attack it. The Church does not believe that there is a moral codes that pertains only to Catholics. Whatever the Church teaches should be believed and practiced by all mankind. However, all people should have the freedom to make their own decisions, but that doesn't change the fact that using a condom is wrong, regardless of whether one is Catholic or not.
again, it was a statement made by a Catholic. perhaps your teachers should do a better job.


This is a common misconception- that there are times when abortion is the only answer.
In every pregnancy, there is a risk of death. Some are more risky than others. There are a few case where there is absolute certainty of death, but those cases the Church allow procedures to save the mother's life.
interesting. So there IS situational morality. Yet we're told there is not.

(and also interesting that an abortion to save a mothers life is acceptable, but a condom, which could protect the same person from being in that position in the first place, is not. this lacks in common sense completely.)




Condoms objectify human beings, which was the cause of the HIV epidemic in the first place.
that's some finely backed horse apples.


Do you see the bible as a guide? That you half-hearted look to, except when it contradicts your morality?
yes, I see the bible as a guide.

I didn't see anywhere written in it's pages that you have to check your brain at the door though. I think God expects us to think things through.

if Jesus was intent on us following rules for rules sake, then he should have had the adultress stoned. He did not.

The Church is not a guide, it a means of preserving the truth for all generations until Christ returns.
that again, was in response to a statement made by a Catholic.



Yes, the Church considers such contraception sinful and thus could be quite detrimental to the soul.

indeed. Just like eating meat on a Friday. oh wait... that's ok now.

but nothing changes.....

You don't seem to even know what infallible dogma is.

sure I do. the claim is, it's always been believed and taught, and it's proclaimed ex cathedra, therefore it's infallible. It cannot change. It is immutable.

it's a really bad idea, of course, you can't even backpedal when you look foolish.... but there you have it. Don't try and play the "you just don't understand it" card. We're not idiots, we just don't believe it.

This is the problem with most protestant morality- it is based on rules and commands.
[/quote} my irony meter just blew up.


Protestant morality is based on the idea that God gives laws and we should obey them. The morality of the action depends on whether or not it violates what God commands. Protestants turn to scripture and look for what is commanded of them, and then finding rules and exceptions in order to create gray areas.

Protestants can usually answer what God forbids and allows, but they can't answer why. This is because the protestant reformers believed that trying to understand the will of God is an attack on His sovereignty. Catholics believed that God created things in a natural order. That by understand this order, we can understand the morality of an action. The Reformers said that this would bond God to His own created order.

For example, we all know that adultery is wrong. But could God make adultery right tomorrow? Is adultery wrong because God says so, or does God say so because adultery is wrong?
so then, God is subject to his own laws and statues... that's interesting.

For Catholics, adultery will always be wrong because it goes against the natural order. It is a violation of the way humanity was designed- Genesis shows that man was created to marry a woman and become one flesh. Thus, adultery has nothing to do with rules. It isn't wrong because the Church or God merely says so. It is a violation of our humanity, people are not created for that. By violating our nature, we only cause more problems.

The same exists for condoms. Condoms aren't wrong because the Church made a rule. The Church condemns using condemns because it violates our human nature and puts a barrier between a couple. Couples were meant to give themselves entirely in marriage and in the sexual act. To use a condom would be keeping part of oneself from their spouse- their fertility. Marriage is about total self giving, it is practice that prepares us for Heaven where we totally give ourselves to God fully. How can we prepare to give ourselves to our spouse, Christ in Heaven when we don't give ourselves fully to our spouse on Earth?
you don't get it, do you?

that is RULE BASED. you pretend it's some question of natural order, but over the last two years, killing my wife by getting her pregnant would have been a real bad "natural order" don't you think?

it boggles the mind. It's almost like people don't THINK. on the one hand, they say it's the natural order, so condom use is sinful, but then would say that abstinence would be the only way to protect my wife from a potentially fatal pregnancy.... and THAT doesn't violate the natural order?

give you head a shake.

That would involve being open to fertility. If you aren't giving all of yourself to your spouse, then it isn't fully unitive. You can't have an honest relationship with secrets.
it's no secret, when both parties are part of the decision. That's a silly statement.
 
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The only thing he mentions is ones burning and that its would be better to marry then to burn, for example my sisters case, married so they would not burn, but now shes allergic to his "you know what", the condom would still be able to satisfy any burning either of them have, but making the condom a sin would make them no better then unmarried and burning when such a simple thing takes care of the problem for the both of them.


he drops back, throws.... touchdown.
 
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Yeah, I leave it to her own concience then ^_^
Yeah, we all have to sleep with one of those, don't we?
And that fact alone carries a lot of authoritative weight.
 
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If we go by your rule of Scripture alone---I could first point out that the Bible shows that the Church was appointed to pass on such truth, and therefore listening to the Church's teaching is one and the same as listening to Biblical teaching.

If we go by the strict Protestant assumption that the Church does not have this privilege and we therefore need to individually show other individuals where the Bible is against contraception, one could begin with the sin of Onan (Gn 38:9-10), which your faith's namesake John Calvin also interpreted as a "monstrous" sin.

You also have the figure of marriage (which I covered earlier) with Jesus as bridegroom that loses value if contraception is introduced.

You also have Paul arguing against homosexual behavior on the grounds that it was "unnatural" (Rm 1:27-28) Thus introducing unnatural addendums to thwart the natural result of the act, one is by Paul's standard sinning.

The Church does not have the authority to simply make up rules and dogma. And if we were to look at the context of the story of Onan, one would have to come up with a gratuitous assumption to conclude that the point was contraception. Also, though somewhat loosely related, how does the Roman Church explain the Song of Solomon; wherein which has some not-so-vague references to oral sex? And how far does this supposed doctrine, "if it is unnatural, then it is sin" go?
 
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the question is the title.

I have bolded the Catholic points, but did not want to presume to copy them in full, as they probably wouldn't have wanted participation in this thread.

I'm the one that said making statements condemning giving Condoms to people in AIDS stricken countries was neither compassionate, nore using good judgement.

Maybe I'm just confused. You're getting defensive about an issue that could be avoided if those same people just abstained from sex. Why do you insist that they have to be given condoms. Why do you have to argue with the idea that an organization doesn't want to support a habit of pure sexual gratification because it doesn't match their values? People dont HAVE to have sex, so what does the Catholic Church's stand on it have anything to do with compassion? If you don't like the fact that they won't support condom distribution, then start an organization of your own that does! I really don't get why you are so upset over this.
 
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Very real and deadly too.

Actually, God bound Himself to forgive us.
That's why He says that He is faithful and "JUST" to forgive us if we
confess our sin ...
If He did not forgive us, after Christ paid, He would be "unjust".
I think that presumes too much. John is especially writing to God's children, "we".

John said Christ was the propitiation for "the whole world". Christ's payment was enough to pay us all up. But God isn't unjust to punish some that the payment covers. Mt 25 comes to mind.
 
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I think that presumes too much. John is especially writing to God's children, "we".

John said Christ was the propitiation for "the whole world". Christ's payment was enough to pay us all up. But God isn't unjust to punish some that the payment covers. Mt 25 comes to mind.
Hey there you are Mikey.
What presumes too much?
Didn't you just say the same exact thing that i said?
*scratches head
 
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Is being artificially inseminated ok with the church, or no in this case? Or should I ask someone else?

I still highly doubt condom use would be condoned for reasons I told you in my last post to you. But you would get a surer answer from someone else if you want the Catholic teaching on the matter. You might want to call one of the Catholic apologists or the apologetics hotline at Catholic Answers. Tonight is open forum Q&A where you could ask it live on the air. It's 2 hours starting at 6:00 eastern. Radio number is 1-888-318-7884.

You can also call their general apologetic off-the-air line at 1-619-387-7200 any time you want.
 
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Whats the difference if i choose to abstain from sex
(For purpose of contraception)
or if i choose to have sex but use a condom?
There is none.

Abstinence does not compromise the sexual act because there is no sexual act. Abstinence shows respect for the gift of sexuality and its proper end. Going forth with sex and compromising the end with a condom is much different. You may think there is none, but I see a gigantic difference and so does the Church.
 
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