What exactly do you find "priceless" about "TheDude2011" misrepresenting "sunset2009's" position exactly?
Can you elaborate where you think he's correct?
It seems you made this entire thread just to gloat brag and imply to everyone that you have money.
Hold your horses brother.I never implied I had money.I asked a basic question,'do we have gold diggers in church?' Reason is very simple ,a church is a place of transformation where views are generally different to the world's.In the world I have no doubt we have plenty of gold diggers 'who marry till poverty do us part' or marry for 2-4 years divorce and clean the guy out but do these things exist in church?I only wanted to know among other things what sisters look for in a partner,does the size of his wallet matter?How do they rate other things like fruit of the spirit,character,integrity,devotion to the Lord etc it's all about the motives.What incentivises people?This is not so much about me,this is about the ladies in the house,what they think,what they value what makes them move?
As a way of telling the entire forum that you have money you've created a sham of a thread that bashes women and vilifies them as all being money hungry and are worried about "gold diggers' taking yours...
You have jumped to a conclusion a wrong one for that matter.I will not confes s that I do not have money if that's what you wanted me to say,'you shall have what you say' Jesus said.'As you have said it in my presence so shall it be unto you 'God said yes I'm loaded and that's no crime but that wasnt the purpose.
Also there's no woman bashing here,everyone here is speaking their mind in good faith and there's no wrong or right answer,all I wanted to do was hear it from the horses mouth.A sister mentioned security as a key issue,that helped a brother a great deal.My point was do they look at the current situation,do they look at the unseen for God's word says the things that are not seen are eternal,what's the role of faith in this?A sister did mention it was not so much about how much he has now but the drive and ambition.I understood from her point of view,if someone doesnt have the drive now current performance will be probably be repeated.I do know that people are different and I expect to hear different views concerning the subject but from that a pattern will still emerge ,sort of a normal bell distribution curve with generally centralised views about this.
About sum it up? Yes, and your only comment so far other than your judgemental and incredibly flawed OP was to pat a fellow woman basher on the back with a "atta boy"... Sad.
I asked the question because I wanted to know what forumites think.There was no reason for me to voice an opinion because I want to hear what others think.Occassionaly I will ask a question to get clarity or answer if asked a question but as a thread starter I'm generally in the audience.The brother you mention names,firstly I have never read his other threads,I do not know if he's a woman basher,to me he only highlighted a contrast in the sister's expression and I found his attention to detail priceless.To me I'm excited,people are saying what they think and were engaging in a healthy discussion without any name calling.
I hope this clarifies my position and clears all assumptions.
Well done sir.
