If you feel that way, OK. My understanding is that it's not permitted to debate against the faith of the host group (which I did not do), but that posts in fellowship are permitted. However, if fellowship is not to be extended to me, I certainly do not want to intrude.
What frustrates me is 2 things:
* You extracted a minor point from my first post and made it the only point of your reply, thereby making it the major point
* I wasn't frustrated when I first posted, but now not even the minor point, but my frustration will become the focus
The frustration, the perceived offense, people's "rights" to post or nor post ... it's not worth it. So, I will try to repeat my main point as succinctly as I can, and then I will not comment further on predestination in this thread.
The typical explanation of passages on predestination by Confessional Lutherans appears to me to proceed as:
a) Some things are beyond our understanding
b) The verses are to be interpreted to mean some are predestined to salvation; none are predestined to damnation
c) If this appears to conflict with logic, then the logic is wrong in some way, but don't try to figure out what the error is. Just accept that it is beyond our understanding.
I have a problem with that. First, I think there are other interpretations of these verses that are perfectly in keeping with Confessional Lutheranism. So, I don't see the need to preserve this "mystery" when I don't see any mystery in the first place.
However, since the LCMS, WELS, etc. are unlikely to budge, I'll not try to argue my interpretation. All I'm asking is for a more sensible explanation. Why do parts b) and c) even need to be there? Are Lutherans afraid to admit that some verses speak of things beyond our understanding? Is that why a half-interpretation has to follow? Why can't we be satisfied with stopping after part a)? Why does it help to give an interpretation you can only defend by disparaging logic (*see note) and which leads you right back to where you started? If it's a mystery, then start there and end there. Avoid all the confusing ducking and dodging that occurs in between.
*Note: Most, when they say single predestination is illogical, are appealing to
the most fundamental tenet of logic - the law of non-contradiction. I find the reactions to this comical in that in one way or another the response cedes
ever using logic, though I doubt people mean to do that.