Ran77 said:
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However, the evidence works against your theory. The evidence being the responses that the LDS have to our posts. They seem to understand what I have to say and agree with it most of the time, while they frequently comment about your posts being inaccurate and unrepresentative of our beliefs.
Are you surprised that your fellow LDSers would agree with you? Of course they do. Over and over, LDS will agree with each other, if for no other reason than to show a united front. I'm NOT saying that this is why the couple of other LDS posters appear to agree with you on this thread. Only saying that we all have our little amen choruses.
Ran77 said:
I'm sure you'll come up with something that refutes the notion that the LDS are the best ones to understand the LDS Doctrine.
Not really called for, is it? Here we are trying to get to the bottom of an important issue and there has to be a personal barb thrown in.
Ran said:
I didn't ask the prophet. My wife does not have any piercings and neither of us have tattoos. (And just in case you're wondering - I don't have any piercings either.)
That's cool. Neither do I, but I have some ugly scars from my military experiences. I think that a pretty tattoo would be more appealing, but... I've had enough needles, thank you. The same goes for the piercings. If someone pokes one more hole in me... Well, never mind.
Ran said:
Are there reasons for avoiding tattoos? Yes.
Are there reasons for avoiding multiple piercings? Yes.
I'm surprised that you can't come up with some reasons on your own. However, I can.
Getting a tattoo runs an unnecessary risk of contracting the Aids virus. There may be other health risks as well, but I'm not sure of what they all are.
I wonder if the opinion (is that what is is?) of your prophet is based on health or appearance?
Ran said:
I'm not sure if there are any health concerns associated with piercings, but if there are that would be a good reason to council against them.
I wonder if it would be the same health reason for a man as a woman?
Ran said:
However, the strongest reasons I can think of is the appearance of evil. Tattoos and multiple piercings still carry a stigma in our society. Two young men go to a job interview; one wears a suit and the other comes in with spiked hair, multiple piercings, and a skull tattooed to his forehead. Which one is more likely to get the job?
Where do we draw the line as to what we allow society dictate to our beliefs? There are some (of which I am one) who believe that people who divorce and remarry are guilty of adultery. However, society tells me that is okay. I know of LDS members who have divorced and remarried. It seems that this is not encouraged but alright under certain circumstances. To me this act is NOT avoiding the appearance of evil, but becoming the face of it.
Ran said:
In the movies, you want the audience to instantly recognize a character as a bad guy - what do you do? That's right, plaster on a couple of wicked looking tattoos and pierce his nose and the audience will immediately identify him as trouble.
You forgot the black hat.
Ran said:
Right or wrong, society still largely judges these things to be unacceptable. If you want to avoid the appearance of evil then currently that includes remaining un-tattooed and limited piercing.
To a degree, but society be darned. We are not to be to this world. Romans 12:2 says, "
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."
Why not have the leadership issue a proclamation regarding motorcycles? These can get some stereotypical negative images about evil, etc.
Ran77 said:
I feel confident that the reasons I have given above represent a good portion of the thinking that is behind the prophet's counsel against these things. They represent good and reasonable reasons to avoid tattoos and multiple piercings. I am not sure why anyone would rail against counsel intended to remove some possible obstacles in our lives.
You are probably correct in listing the reasons, but it still boils down to is it (or are they) a commandment (because your prophet made the statement) or is it a suggestion because it is probably the wise thing to do? More simply put, is it a sin to for women to wear more than one pair of earrings? Is it a sin to be tattooed?
Ran77 said:
I believe the appearance I give will be one of frustration at having to deal with a constant turrent of misrepresentations of the LDS beliefs.
However, this is a self-inflicted calling which should have been embarked upon when you were assure that you had a healthy dose the gift of patience. Personally, I don't believe that there are many misrepresentations, only bantering by some LDS over semantics, vis a vis, commandments vs. advice or eternal life vs. everlasting life, etc.
I feel that Phoebe Ann brought up a very important subject. Just when are a prophet's musings to adhered to or merely pondered about?
Actually, I encountered this very early in my LDS career. I went to the local meetinghouse to hear the spring conference on one Saturday evening. The prophet at that time was Joseph Fielding Smith and he strongly admonished those who were practicing birth control to stop that faithless act and provide a tabernacle for which spirit children to come into. He stated that many people were practicing birth control for economic reasons and said that the Lord would provide for the faithful. This was all well and good because he wasn't speaking to me. <g> However, the person I went to the meeting with told me, once we were in the car, he didn't think that the prophet expected us to commit financial suicide. Therefore, he and his wife where going to continue to plan their family the way that they had been doing. I asked him if we were listening to the same talk???? He assured me that we were, but that I was still new to LDS life and would eventually understand what's required and what's nice to do,but NOT required. Again, this topic wasn't voted on so I guess the prophet was only saying that IF we wanted more blessings or financial help, here's what to do, GET YOUR WIFE PREGNANT! Boy, talk about hearing one thing being told that it was something else!
Anyway, have a nice week-end.
Mac