What if you didn't have the urge to lust while you played the porn game? Would you still play it?
I don't think I could say with any certainty that I wouldn't lust though. I would rather stray from that altogether, than risk temptation. In addition, that speaks to our sexual lives, which is something quiet personal, and I enjoy gaming as a social activity and my sex-life is something private. I wish to keep those two right where they are.
I am confused about what side to take, but one thing I've noticed in our western society is that we are desensitized to violence, yet we are quick to point the finger when we see sexually explicit things.
Do you think this has a take on your view of things?
Yes quite likely. I was always fascinated when I worked in Germany, that people were reading adult magazines on the bus and I saw a wife pass a paper with a page 3 model (topless model on page 3 of the paper) to her husband for him to look at. I was like, "Wth?!" hehe. So yes, in addition during my unsaved life, I was heavily exposed to violence and gore as I was a fan of horror movies and graphic novels. I still enjoy graphic novels and movies, yet am very particular about what I read/watch, because I know how these things affected me and I don't want to add to that side of my character anymore.
Like Chris says, why should we indulge ourselves in imitations of sins even if we believe it doesn't affect our character to sin?
That's what I've been saying. He just did it in one sentence. >_> Do you truly feel BF2 has imitations of sin, that is why they were created, to cater to that side of life, the sinful side? Do you feel that way about games like Manhunt 1 or 2 or God of War 1 or 2? I know the difference between them. I can see the good that comes from games like BF2 and how they are an enjoyable part of our lives, as much as running a marathon or competing in an archery competition. Yet when I look at the latter, I see gratuitous violence, and reinforcement of it through positive in-game rewards.
That's where I draw the line. It's when I feel the game is saying, "Here do this!" *chops someone's head off with an axe* "Yes, well done." *rewarded*.
I feel exposure to the above can really harm your real-world character over a long period of time.
Just as an aside. I met my wife online. In a game called Guild Wars, and she was the one that brought me to Christ. I firmly believe that God at that stage had had enough of trying to draw me to Him and decided to speak to me on my level, and with something I could relate too. Since becoming a Christian I've changed my of my entertainment values and some games I will stray from based on their content, setting or gameplay. I have many friends, all from online games, many who are Christian and we all enjoy playing games together.
I don't enjoy playing games because I get to simulate murdering my friends. I enjoy them for all the reasons I've mentioned before - in a nutshell - the cerebral competition and fellowship.
There is no simulation of sin there for me in the games I play, yet I have played games where they did cater to that side of it.
Think of it like this, as I mentioned above real world sin has real world consequences on your spiritual life. Actions within virtual worlds do not have real world consequences. For the moment, lets not think multiplayer games, lets go with singleplayer. Virtual actions in games, have no real world consequences on anything except you and your character. Now, do you wish to encourage goodness in your character, or evil? As soon as you can recognise that, and see what a game is promoting and
why, you can make a decision to play it or not. Why do you enjoy BF2? Is there anything wrong with your reason, that warns you to stop playing it?
When you play it and you shoot a friend, do you enjoy that because you saw blood spurt from him when the bullet hit him, you like hearing his screams as he dies, you enjoy frustrating your friend and so on. We can impose many negative cause and effect sequences on our actions in games, yet do they truly represent
why we play them? Or, rather, do we enjoy other things instead? Did you enjoy out-smarting your friend, using the environment to your advantage, thinking on your feet, the atmosphere, the laughter of the victory and the congratulations that followed. I see no inherently bad things in those and I am of the mind it will not affect your spiritual life, or relationship with God. If anything, it has
positive effects on your character as a person.
Cheers,
Digit