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Im a Christian male who is in an apprentice phase of life. Im out of college, starting a new job (still in training) and want to meet a girl/woman who is at the same place in life. I’ve never been married, have no kids and am a virgin. I’m looking for the same in a woman. It seems like she doesn’t exist. How would I find someone like me? I want to be with someone who shares similar values.
 

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Im a Christian male who is in an apprentice phase of life. Im out of college, starting a new job (still in training) and want to meet a girl/woman who is at the same place in life. I’ve never been married, have no kids and am a virgin. I’m looking for the same in a woman. It seems like she doesn’t exist. How would I find someone like me? I want to be with someone who shares similar values.
Where are you looking? I also wonder how you approach a woman to find out if she is a virgin......
 
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Im a Christian male who is in an apprentice phase of life. Im out of college, starting a new job (still in training) and want to meet a girl/woman who is at the same place in life. I’ve never been married, have no kids and am a virgin. I’m looking for the same in a woman. It seems like she doesn’t exist. How would I find someone like me? I want to be with someone who shares similar values.
Your profile says you are 43 years old. How long were you in college for?
 
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Where are you looking? I also wonder how you approach a woman to find out if she is a virgin......
I’ve got a profile on plenty of fish and bumble.
I’ve tried to date people who say they are Christians and come from Christian upbringing, however this fundamental expectation God has for Christians seems to not matter or be valued to most Christian girls/women. Even my pastor believes that searching for another virgin within Christian communities of single females is unrealistic. I feel it is a standard God has made crystal clear. My virginity has never been solely mine. It is my future wife’s as well. I would like to meet someone who feels similar.
 
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Where are you looking? I also wonder how you approach a woman to find out if she is a virgin......
I’ve tried approaching indirectly on directly. I even have shirts which say virgin until marriage on the front and r u waiting too on the back. I think that should make my desires crystal clear.
 
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I am in a similar phase. I'm out of school and training but just starting my career.. single, no kids never married. I will not date someone who does not share my Christian values....the thought of "dating" in way the most of society approaches it actually repulses me...so I haven't much success on dating sites.

I'd love to hear suggestions too
 
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