Anyone else have feelings going back and forth about your spouse?

[AirForceTeacher]

We have greatly diverged from the original topic. Let it go.

 

[Autumnleaf]

To a point...some men are okay but they are taken or gay..the ones who are not taken maybe good for one thing and not even that at times.

At least you're honest about it. It can be easy to generalize based on our limited experiences. Not all women are as bad as I sometimes make them out to be. I hope you realize not all men are bad either. I know many kind men who can't get a date to save their lives or they are married to women who treat them poorly. There are plenty of nice guys out there. So long as you don't waste time with the rotten ones you will eventually find a good one.

 

[TealTuesday]

they don't deserve for us to 'go back and forth' in reality because they probably like us holding on to them. mine has a steel heart. i watch him make stupid mistake after mistake with girls,they must be very lonely in the long run realizing they dont understand love and if they do,they sure cant belong to anyone.

 

[leadinglady311]

I have no compassion in my heart for my soon to be ex and my walk with God would be so much easier if I didn't have to deal with him at because of my son...I know that is not right and I am asking God to work on me. My ex is so nasty and it so ironic being that HE is the cheater, HE is the one who broke up our family and I am the one left holding things together. I was wanting to get back together for months, and I was slighted at every cost. I still believed God that He do all things according to His Word....It seems like as time goes on, he gets nastier and more bitter. It hurts and I am now just looking forward to this divorce being complete ( I contested it).

The weird thing I still love him but I am tired. I stepped back to let God have his way and maybe I am getting in the way because everytime he attacks me I go off and maybe that is God testing me and giving me a chance to show love with his hate but I just feel used and defeated everytime this happens and I am tired group.

 

[Shown Much Mercy]

Wow, I can't believe tha I missed this tread earlier. Thank you to all who posted your experience. I also see that I am not the only one. I go back and forth and it feels like no one can relate at times. I know all too well about the mind games as well.

 

[TealTuesday]

& i bet they go back & forth about us & we don't even know it