hi everybody. I'm searching for the strength to thrive in marriage to a nice man who is not a Christian, but pretends, and who seems to have Aspergers. He is a good father, and checks all the boxes. I do believe that the Bible has all the answers.
It's hard to be attracted to someone who seems to be at the mental stage of a 15 YO. He doesn't seem to be going anywhere, but he does well maintaining things at home. The Bible says to respect your husband. That's his choice.
Another problem is my lack of motivation. Because we expect people to be encouraging and excited for us, the complete opposite is a drag. It feels so unnatural. I do alright at work, but then I come home to someone whose life revolves around himself, and wants a medal for taking out the garbage. He doesn't spend any time with friends; he is happy to stay home alone all day. I'm having trouble making myself do things that require creativity or are difficult. I feel like I'm barely hanging on. Can anyone relate?
It's hard to be attracted to someone who seems to be at the mental stage of a 15 YO. He doesn't seem to be going anywhere, but he does well maintaining things at home. The Bible says to respect your husband. That's his choice.
Another problem is my lack of motivation. Because we expect people to be encouraging and excited for us, the complete opposite is a drag. It feels so unnatural. I do alright at work, but then I come home to someone whose life revolves around himself, and wants a medal for taking out the garbage. He doesn't spend any time with friends; he is happy to stay home alone all day. I'm having trouble making myself do things that require creativity or are difficult. I feel like I'm barely hanging on. Can anyone relate?