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Blondie_123

Declaring veracities at every bend
My best friend and I have been best friends for 6 years, and we know each other so well, that it's uncanny. But ever since I hooked her up with my friend, and they've been dating, she's forgotten all about me. We haven't done anything togther since November, and the only time she calls me is when her and her boyfriend aren't getting along 100%, or she has a problem. Tonight was one of those nights, and it really ruined my awesome day. It's hard, being put on a shelf until you're needed. If you could pray that we get to be best friends again, and she'd actually have enough time in her "busy" day to think about me, I'd really appreciate it.
Much love,
~Sammy
 

amie

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Hi Sammy,
sometimes as we walk through life, it is often easy to lose sight of the things that are really important to us. It is the people that really matter to us that we often will "forget" when we are busy doing other things or in the midst of an exciting relationship. I am sure she still adores you, but have you told her how you feel? Tell her you miss her and you want to start doing a "girls night", she might need that as much as you do! I wish you only the best! I am praying for and with you on this, love and blessings always!
Amie :angel:
 
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Blondie_123

Declaring veracities at every bend
Amie, see, that's just it. I've TOLD her how I felt, and I've explained more than once. And she always says we'll get together, but alawys ends up canceling because she goes to do things with her boyfriend instead. So, you see, I've tried. That's partly why it's so hard.

And thank you all for praying.
Much love,
~Sammy
 
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amie

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Hi Sammy,
oh yes, that would be frustrating! I once had a friend who alienated all of her family and friends for a boy she fell in love with, at the end of a couple of years, he is all she had because people grew tired of being pushed off to the side, and she had some major regrets there. It took alot of time to mend her relationships with people.It sounds like he has become her entire life and I understand how you would be feeling left out and missing the friendship. I will continue to pray and my hope is that she may be able to recognize any damage she may be inflicting on her friendships. More often than not, we are not even aware, but since you have told her how you are feeling, the only thing left to do is to offer it up to God and keep praying, it is truly the most powerful gift we can give. I am here for you if you ever need to talk. Best of luck to you, keep us posted on any new developments, and God Bless you always!
Amie :angel:
 
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