Another question here....

[Stanfi]

Joe,

Remember a couple of things,

1.) If soemthing doesn't seem quite right, more than likely it isn't.

2.) If someone is truly interested in you, and wants to be your friend, they will want to talk to you.

3.) If someone truly wants something, there is not much that will keep them from getting it.

4.) You can always tell what is important to someone by their actions.

I have a feeling that you will find that this girl has moved on to someone else. I've been in your shoes and it hurts. I have often wondered why it took a girl 3 Weeks to email me back. I came up with excuses, like she was really busy, or something has come up.

Truth of the matter is that she was really busy... with another guy.

Sorry, but life kind of hurts sometimes.

 

[joeman1]

Hey guys some good news. Just got an email from her. I found out that she has been working very hard and hasn't had much time to do anything else. well just thought I would let you guys know.

 

[KeilCoppes]

That's great - I'm fantastically glad to see the other side of things happen for once!

 

[KeilCoppes]

Excellent advice. Thank you for your testimony! There's one question that bothers me, though. How can one work effectively for God when they don't have many people in their lives? Don't you eventually run out of ways to glorify God by yourself?

EDIT: I'm sorry, I wasn't really thinking well when I wrote this last night. It's not a very good question.

Yes, it can be challenging alone - that's why you find people to talk to, say on places like CF? And in the yard and walking and in the grocery store and at work and at church.... :^) I'd also be very happy to have a much more personal every night ministry in the home, but that's not happening so far.

 

[egleis78]

I think you should e-mail your friend one last time. In the e-mail let her know that you haven't heard from her and would like to know how she's doing. That way she has to respond, but if she doesn't then actions speak louder than words. You know to move on. It may be that she is very busy, or plan and simple she is trying to avoid you. I'm sorry if that seems harsh, but honestly if she really wanted to communicate with you she would find a way no matter how busy she was. Give it time and if she's interested she'll come around.