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[jsu5381m]

I am having serious issues with anger management to the point I fear I may hurst someone. I am afraid of every woman on the planet who is not my mother or grandma, or over 70. I do not get along with the opposite sex at all. I'm to the point, I fear, if I had a baby daughter I would abort it becuase I don't want to have to put up with the critical rejection I got from my sister who verbally abused me and I lived in fear she might physically harm me. I don't like females period. I don't think there is one out there I can trust.

 

[Criada]

That sounds very hard brother.
Praying that God will heal you hurt, give you peace, and help you to learn to trust.

And remember, in Christ there is neither male nor female...(Gal 3:28)
We are all human. And you have obviously been very hurt, but please don't let the past ruin your future.
Do you have a pastor or mature Christian friend that you can talk and pray about this with?

God bless you.

 

[soulhaven]

I just prayed for you and asked the Holy Spirit to give me a word for you. Immediately Prov 15 came into my spirit.

Pls read it and surrender all anger as in the end the only person it will hurt is you and God does not want to see HIS children in this state.

Be Blessed!

 

[sekir]

FAther in heaven i ask prayers for this brother here.FAther please heal him and help him forgive those who have hurt him.ALso FAther help him trust females and respect them
FAther comfort and strengthen him in your spirit
in Jesus name
AMen

 

[LadyMarion52]

I am having serious issues with anger management to the point I fear I may hurst someone. I am afraid of every woman on the planet who is not my mother or grandma, or over 70. I do not get along with the opposite sex at all. I'm to the point, I fear, if I had a baby daughter I would abort it becuase I don't want to have to put up with the critical rejection I got from my sister who verbally abused me and I lived in fear she might physically harm me. I don't like females period. I don't think there is one out there I can trust.

Hon that is the way a lot of females feel about males. I'm so sorry that you have been treated badly. I understand exactly how it is. I don't trust a male anywhere period. It's hard to learn to trust again when you've been hurt over and over. What you are feeling is a natural response to rejection and severe abuse. But you really need to speak to someone about your anger issues. I'll tell you why...... as I have learned Anger only hurts YOU! It'll eat your insides out and control your brain and your life until there is nothing but hate and bitterness and anger. Abuse has a tendency to do that to a person. What I'm going to ask you is that you start just talking to God every day and telling Him about how you feel and after you confess all those horrible anger and resentment feelings you ask God to help you to forgive whomever did them to you and to please take the anger away. Do it every day. You don't have to say thy or thine just talk to HIm like you talk to anyone else. He understands. Confession leads to healing and forgiveness. Also I will ask you to start writing down all those things that were done to hurt you in a journal. Be totally honest. Then when the journal is done ask God to take all the pain you have it filled with and all the anger and resentment and then burn it page by page each time saying Lord I forgive as an act of my will I commend this person or persons to You and I ask that You take the anger and resentment away from my heart. As you do these things it will help. I do it every day. I can't say that I totally trust men now but I can talk to them without being bitter and angry with them and I forgive easier than I did. I don't hang on to it. As far as having a relationship with a man now I'm won't for a while. Not until I get my heart totally right with GOD over it all and fix me. So for right now Jesus is my Husband and I do trust Him. He can help you. I promise that. If what i've said sounds stupid all I ask you to do is to pray about it and see if God wants you to try it. Ok? I pray that God blesses you honey. Hugs Lady Marion

Dear Lord Jesus I ask that You Impart to this man the ability to forgive those who have wronged him. I ask that You impart to him the ability to let his anger go. Lord help him to see that all women aren't like the ones who have harmed him and that sometimes when a person has been abused they tend to look for the same kinds of persons over and over thereby falling into the trap of abuse all over again. It happens with women and men. Lord I ask that You give him wisdom and understanding and that You bless him with a sweet spirit. Help him to get himself right and be able to forgive and help him learn to deal with the anger in a way that You would be pleased with. Lord God please help him. Show him that there are still people to be trusted but also show him that we should never totally rely on people because they will always fail us. But You Lord God never NEVER fail us. Show him that he must learn to totally only rely on You and he won't be so enbittered when a person lets him down. Lord I ask now that You give him peace and please show him that he is loved and someome cares about the plight he is going through and isn't judging him but wants to help him. Lord please bless the work of his hands and help him in all ways. Lord deal with this sister who has been so mean to him. Let her see the error ofher ways and if she is not saved then lead her to people who can tell her of Your saving graces. Then let her ask for forgiveness for the wrongs she has done to her brother. And let her change her ways. I ask all this in Jesus Name Amen

 

[StarryEyes]

Praying for you. Just because your sis treated you wrong doesn't mean that all females are bad. Also not all males are bad.. but we are ALL sinners..

Romans 3:23
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,

We dont' always have the best intentions, and sometimes we do have the right intentions but yet it fails. Praying for you!!

 

[michristke]

Praying for peace in your heart. There are many wonderful females out there.

 

[Lbet123]

I am having serious issues with anger management to the point I fear I may hurst someone. I am afraid of every woman on the planet who is not my mother or grandma, or over 70. I do not get along with the opposite sex at all. I'm to the point, I fear, if I had a baby daughter I would abort it becuase I don't want to have to put up with the critical rejection I got from my sister who verbally abused me and I lived in fear she might physically harm me. I don't like females period. I don't think there is one out there I can trust.

This may be one of the hardest things you ever do BUT until you do it you will not have any peace. FORGIVE! Whatever your sister (or anyone else female or otherwise) has done to you in the past let it go and the only way you can do that is looking ahead and to the Son. It is thru the love and salvation of Jesus Christ that you can move forward with your life in a peaceful loving way. He is there for you if you seek him. Seek him
JSU and you will find a new look on life.
You are in my prayers for this situation!!!!!!!!!!!
L

 

[HopeSeeker]

Praying for you. Praying for peace and strength always.
God Bless.

 

[mom_one]

praying for you

 

[brachah]

pray for ur recovery fm ur emotional wound. in christ jesus amen.

professional psycho program n treatmnt are very helpful. gb.

 

[sistakrista]

PRAYING!

 

[gloryseven]

jsu5381m- I will pray

Loving Lord Jesus, You know this young man and all he has been through. You are Our Comforter and Our Healer. Christ means Healer. Please touch this mans life and bring Your love and healing power into his life.

Help him overcome this fear of his anger issues and help him find people who can help him deal with this pain he is holding within.

Lord, please heal our brother. Amen.

Jesus, Jesus, I Trust You!

 

[jsu5381m]

The anger went away for a few days, then it came right back. I actually dumped several female friends, saying I didn't want anything to do with them.