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servant of Merciful Love said:
Originally Posted by davedajobauk



too true!!!

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That's for sure!
There is always a way to say things gently and firmly,
but for me, I try taking time to think it through first.
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Very commendable Luba Sis


IT IS HARD; to put out a fire, or, heal wounds in another, with repentance

Far better, to accept the facts
and take the path that you need to take
ie:
# that route 'that does no harm' -
# 'is kindest for both parties' -
# ensures that BOTH can move-on, in their own 'directions'

Life-changing consequences, NEED
that 'quiet aforethought'
especially when,
sufferance, is great
and the
ongoing prospect, is ~yet-more... of the same!
and,
with hindsight,
the knowledge re: resolution being unreachable ~to a mutual satisfaction
endorses, the course of action that resolves all-difficulties
and also provides
the space and freedom to step-up and move-on

Recourse, then becomes, a definitive action [planned, if you will]

It is of-course upsetting, to the COMMITTED party
to have-to [finally] acknowledge their own inefficacy
~to resolve matters
that affect both parties, in entirely opposite ways

Calling, an end / "STOP" to, a relationship [for example]
will happen
when the expectations of the one [however few and, innocuous]
are, inconsiderately confounded/impeded, in the heart and mind, of the other

just saying



dave
 
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servant of Merciful Love said:
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Ummmmm...that wasn't ME....that was LUBA you quoted #489

I'm not sure how you got my name on her quote

Just saying
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I was wondering about that, too.

When I read that, I said, "Golly, Gail and I said the very same thing"
 
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servant of Merciful Love said:
#492

Ummmmm...that wasn't ME....that was LUBA you quoted #489

I'm not sure how you got my name on her quote

Just saying
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luba said:
I was wondering about that, too.

When I read that, I said, "Golly, Gail and I said the very same thing"
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LOL I see it

I would say my 'bad'
however this was the day I had several duplicated posts
and, one failed post ie: was submitted but not added to the thread

With apologies to 'both' for failing to notice post-submission

your Bro'

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luba said:
I was wondering about that, too.

When I read that, I said, "Golly, Gail and I said the very same thing"
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Like minds...
davedajobauk said:
LOL I see it

I would say my 'bad'
however this was the day I had several duplicated posts
and, one failed post ie: was submitted but not added to the thread

With apologies to 'both' for failing to notice post-submission

your Bro'

dave
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luba said:
No apology needed for me, Dave!
Wishing you a GREAT day!
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Ditto Dave ~ I was teasing you

God bless you both
 
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LOL... I blame it on 'the bats' in my ears
Who could 'think-straight' when, they are around ?





I have made an edit to the post above #492


dave







Or, fail to .........................
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davedajobauk said:
LOL... I blame it on 'the bats' in my ears
Who could 'think-straight' when, they are around ?
I have made an edit to the post above #492
dave
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I have that problem too
All is well
 
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