I think "the basics" have changed. It used to be a mortgage, utilities, taxes, phone bill, possibly a car payment (if you can afford it), and insurance.
Nowadays it means high-speed internet, a house phone, and a smartphone for every household member, utilities and insurance for a house, multiple under 25 drivers Tablets, laptops and/or PCs for every household member. Eating fast food half the time, Amazon gadgets, Prime, Netflix, Disney Plus, cable TV or satellite, new clothes every year. A car payment for everyone in the house old enough to drive, insurance, and Vegan or organic food that is locally sourced.
Of course, the price of living has gone up from just having rent/mortgage, light bill, and insurance for dad's car and the house/apartment/condo.