An interesting situation...

[inchristalone221]

Well, I'm very much in love with this person(those of you who've helped me out in the past know who I'm talking about).

We're best friends. I trust her with anything and she trusts me with anything. We are involved in each others spiritual lives (I pray for her, she prays for me, we talk about God together a lot).

She has only recently broken off a past relationship (as you know by now), and she needs to have some time to recover before we go beyond friendship. We recently started to become even closer in that way. We flirted quite a bit. I knew she needed time and that I shouldn't get carried away, but I couldn't help myself. Well, we caught ourselves, and we're trying to back it off a little, just maintain our relationship without actually courting until she's had more time.

Just pray for me, because I don't have the same problem she does. I'm fully ready and anxious to see if she's the one for me. Pray that I'll be sensitive to her needs, because I really want for her to be happy. I want for her to be healed from these emotional scars she has, and I just really want to be part of that healing. She says I help her a lot, and I'd just like to keep being a good influence.

Thanks

 

[ahmunmun]

I'm proud of you. The last guy who courted me had just broken up with his girlfriend but he was already in a rush to start a relationship with me. I find it hard to accept his pace since I couldn't get out of my head that he had JUST broken up with his last girlfriend and that every time I hang out with him, I would think that he had just been in this same place with a different girl. I agree that there should definitely be time to get over an ex. Otherwise, it's not fair to the other person.

I'll pray for you. Please think of the waiting time as being good for you as well. You wouldn't want to be in my situation where I was constantly wondering if the guy had been recycling his dating ideas from his former girlfriends.

 

[adnilgnav]

I might not be of any help to you but i was angry at my ex 1 and so i dated another ex 2 only to take revenge on the ex 1 before. So i dont know. I would play emotional games on my ex 2. We got along pretty well. When ex 1 come back i dropped ex 2 like the yellow pages on the front steps on my house and closed the door. And like the yellow pages making me trip when i would come home i would kick and keep kicking it out of the way until it had fallen on the ground behind a bush.

 

[inchristalone221]

Please think of the waiting time as being good for you as well.

We've agreed that it will be good for both of us. I told her that I wanted to prove to her that I love her, and this is at least one way of doing that. She blushed quite a bit at that, but she said that she knows I love her, but she needs some time to sort out some things (I can't give you any details, sorry, I never want to betray her trust, she doesn't trust easily and it's an honor I hold very dearly).

I don't know how long this is going to last, but I've decided I can make it. God is the center of our relationship anyway, and we will continue to be best friends no matter what happens. Lemme tell ya, she's worth waiting for