Paul addresses this issue briefly but concisely:
[bible]Romans 6:1-2[/bible]
Even though Reconciliation Awareness embraces the hope of the Gospel that through Christ, God has reconciled all to Himself, there is still the matter of whether the individual has received these glad tidings or not. There is still a temporal state of "saved" vs. "lost", with "saved" being those of us who joyfully receive this message and respond to the love of God from our hearts, and "lost" being the current (but NOT eternal) state of those who have yet to receive the peace with God which is available to all.
Receiving the blessed hope in Christ involves transformation by His Spirit. This transformation gives us a heart after God's heart, a mind after the mind of Christ distinct from our carnal/natural minds (which are at enmity with God by nature because of sin) which brings us into agreement with God concerning the nature of sin, that it is what brings death and misery and that we desire to be cleansed of it and to see IT (not people infected with it) destroyed.
Repentance is a gift from God, evidence that His Spirit is alive and at work in our hearts, bringing us to this change of heart, mind & attitude, whereby we no longer want to continue in sin but to walk in the Spirit and live the kind of radical love Jesus lived in His life. Receiving Him changes us. Anyone who claims to have received the hope of the Gospel but then says he shall go on to sin all he pleases, since it "doesn't matter", has clearly evidenced, by such statements, that he has not actually received either the hope of the Gospel OR the Spirit of Christ.
Israel, I would be inclined to perceive those PMs as sarcastic, too. They sound like they are intended to "pull your leg" or "yank your chain" and manipulate you into thinking this kind of thing is the fruit of believing the Gospel, the Good News that God in Christ has reconciled us all to Himself (and did so completely BEFORE we even receive Christ, though as I've pointed out here and elsewhere, this does not actively and presently change US until WE receive Christ in response to this). You must realize that the hatred against God's truth is extremely fierce and can, and will, manifest even through people who claim they are saved, chosen, whatever, according to their understanding thereof. There are also many who sincerely and truly believe the Reconciliation to be heresy and that it is their duty to God to stamp it out and/or seek to discredit it at every turn. It can be very hard to look past those behaviors and see the heart of a brother but we must do our utmost in the Spirit to not become elitists or separatists with our faith, which is contrary to that faith, but simply to recognize we are all at different places in understanding the whole mystery of God, and humbly admit even our own understanding to be incomplete even as we reach out to benefit others with the fruit of what we have been blessed to grasp, this precious hope in Christ. Like the blessed first martyr, Stephen, we must look past the hands that cast stones, and the Sauls that hold their coats for them, up into heaven and in sincere emulation of our Lord, make this our prayer, "Lord, lay not this sin to their charge" that we may have the privilege of revealing the heart, mind and spirit of Jesus Christ in our mortal bodies for their sakes.
I will sign off with the charge of 1 Timothy 4:12:
[bible]1 Timothy 4:12[/bible]
Clearly, unless the author of the PM is truly deceived concerning his current relationship with God, someone is despising your youth by thinking you would fall for this kind of manipulative ruse. Stay strong and do not be discouraged. Rather, be the example Jesus shining in you would lead you to be.
Courage.
Moriah