In the 3 or 4 months prior to my daughter Caira's death, she had just begun to appreciate cartoons. She had a few favorites (Bob the Builder, Spongebob, PB&J Otter to name a few), and she and I would eat breakfast and watch cartoons together. It's the activity I miss the most.
Now, my younger daughter, Chloe, is beginning to show interest in cartoons. She'll occassionally sit and watch TV (although, thankfully, she'd much rather play with her toys or the dog than watch TV). My dilemma is that I cannot stand to sit and watch some of the cartoons I used to watch with Cai with her. it hurts too much. So, we just don't let her watch any of them. That narrows the choices, and I can't help but think I'm being selfish and unfair to Chloe.
Am I wrong for not allowing Chloe to experience the same things Caira did, because it hurts me? I promised myself that Cai's death wasn't going to change how I parented Chloe, but it is. Do you think I should just "suck it up" and let Chloe decide which cartoons she likes, just like I did Cai?
Now, my younger daughter, Chloe, is beginning to show interest in cartoons. She'll occassionally sit and watch TV (although, thankfully, she'd much rather play with her toys or the dog than watch TV). My dilemma is that I cannot stand to sit and watch some of the cartoons I used to watch with Cai with her. it hurts too much. So, we just don't let her watch any of them. That narrows the choices, and I can't help but think I'm being selfish and unfair to Chloe.
Am I wrong for not allowing Chloe to experience the same things Caira did, because it hurts me? I promised myself that Cai's death wasn't going to change how I parented Chloe, but it is. Do you think I should just "suck it up" and let Chloe decide which cartoons she likes, just like I did Cai?