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Amen!

BTW, that's even more correct if the BF is the father: if he's not up to marrying you and thus taking responsibility, he's not someone you want to rely on for help.
Well we broke up. He was willing to marry me but.. God warned me against living with him and being with him. I've taken care of our daughter while he was 15minutes away from me. I did it all. Setting up daycare, I went through the sleepless nights, I taught her how to feed herself, how to walk and he thinks since she's not 2 yet I should've been more patient and worked with him even though he's 43.

Anyway. I made a wrong choice choosing him.

Court is in 10 days for him.

He told me I can't handle 2 kids and wants fulld custody even though he hasn't had her more than 3 days since she been born.

Just please keep me in your prayers. Please pray some how I get stable and independent for my kids. I don't want anyone taking them from me.

I'd rather be dead right now.
 
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Nope. That was for the kids- not your mum or anyone else. I would tell your kids that granny was wrong and it won’t happen again.

Btw: hats off to the job you do as a single mum; it must be a tough job. My wife and I have one kid so you being a single mum who obviously cares gets my admiration.
 
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