Since 2011 and on up to 2018, there has been a young man who has had a crush on me. He has asked once before for me to be his girlfriend, yet it wasn't until after graduation that we discussed relationships in general and gave our perspectives on the topic. This guy has amazing qualities, he honors and worship God, works hard, In graduate school to become a lawyer, respects me (all women), shy, family oriented, intelligent, charismatic, kind, gentleman, etc. I could go on listing his qualities, all of this boils down to one thing attraction. I'm not attracted to him. I haven't always dated attractive guys, however with age attraction became a quality on my list of what I desire in a mate. Besides in wanting someone who is God fearing, there are some people including myself who would also want to be attracted to their mate. I tried not to entertain the thoughts of how our children would look, definitely don't want to be a butthead so I left the thought alone. What would you do in a matter such as this?