This verse pertains to know Christ or anyman after the flesh
2Cr 5:16 Wherefore henceforth know we no man after the flesh: yea, though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now henceforth know we him no more.
The flesh (or man) only knows men after the flesh we live in a world which does so, and which also requires us by the law of the land to have a drivers license (with our pictures on it). So If thats how you would regard it (overall) then it would be illegal for you to have a drivers licenses as well. Theres just to be no other gods before him, not to bow down unto them, idols after that respect.
I think what it comes down to is that we are not gnostics, Amish, or Muslim. We can and do have pictures of holy people who have lived on earth and of Christ in the flesh because it is allowed to be depicted. The flesh is not bad. God made us with body and soul.
These are the notes in my OSB for the above verse:
1Cor. 5:16, 17 Paul did not know "the historical Jesus," as He voluntarily took on our mortality, lived on earth and was known
according to the flesh (v. 16). Nobody knows Jesus that way after His Ascension, for his mortal flesh has been transformed into an immortal body. Even so, our
old bodies are transformed into a
new creation (v. 17) in Christ. Because God created
all things through Christ, He will transform and reunite
all things--material was well as spiritual--to Himself through Christ.
I believe the Orthodox perspective and interpretation of that verse is different than what you are interpretating it to be. In other words, it doesn't have to do with the graven images or such.
Though, plenty of folks lose everything they own (even all their pictures of loved ones in fires) devestating, yes, no doubt because we grow fond of pictures and they can carry within us a heavy emotional attachment (undeniably so). We could live without them though we'd rather not though (to be honest) right?
Im not actually advocating for it or otherwise but if need be, I'd be the first to start a bond fire destroying them all without hesitation.
Now, my unbelieving husband would never allow me (I would be met with angry resistance to the idea) as we do have a young daughter who has passed on. He being a former catholic himself has a greater affection for pictures then I myself. We do have three up of her over the sofa and the rest are stored away which I never pull out anymore (given they often grieve me, not comfort me). So my dilema would be with my husband, but nevertheless I understand the fondness or affection towards them Im not saying I do not and am only adressing it in that you bring it up across the board (equally so) as you have.
If all things are to be considered equal in this case then they would need to be equal right? Which would be easier for us to give up if they werent?
Pictures give some comfort and some not so much, as your example shows, FIF. But, God gave us the senses to use for worship. Seeing is a big one. And everything that is holy of God, we venerate: The Altar, the Holy Bible, the icons of Saints, Christ, and the life of Christ and His Holy Mother, the Cross, etc. Yes, we Orthodox kiss all of those mentioned (yes, even the bible). Because we honor the holy of God.