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Not if you're 24 & she's 14.
I don't see how 10 years gross, but I think when you start getting into that range where you're spouse is closer to your parents age than your, well, then just eww.
Grossness aside. I think it would be difficult to make a marriage work if their is essentially a generation gap between you and your spouse.
I don't see how 10 years gross, but I think when you start getting into that range where you're spouse is closer to your parents age than your, well, then just eww.
Grossness aside. I think it would be difficult to make a marriage work if their is essentially a generation gap between you and your spouse.
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I think it depends on at what point in life you are at. If you are 24 and your future wife is 14 I think that could spell trouble. If you are 34 and your girlfriend is 24 I think that would be more in line. Most guys I know would not let their 14 year old daughters date a man that is 24.
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Man Four Years from now, you could Marry a Martian. Why are you Worring about that now??
You need to get your peeps off that youngin... or your gonna end up on the wrong side of a Fathers Fist of Fury.
You need to get your peeps off that youngin... or your gonna end up on the wrong side of a Fathers Fist of Fury.
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Well.... I've heard of situations where there is, say, a 14 year old and a 24 year old. If they wait until the 14 year old is at least 18 to date, it could work out.... but its more difficult... after all an 18 year old is beginning life, about to go to college (maybe), finally an adult... and the 28 year old is probably thinking about settling down, having kids.... or WHATEVER... they're just in different stages
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Why would a anyone in their mid 20s be interesting in someone who is barely a teenager?
At 25, I can barely tolerate being around anyone who is in high school for more than 5 min. The length of time has grown shorter and shorter with the years. Maturity--- physical, mental, and emotional-- is lacking.
Now, if we were talking about someone in their mid 20s and someone in their mid 30s, I believe that 10 year difference is exceptable. They both a adults, have more in common, and have more similiar levels of maturity.
It's people in their 20s who check out high school girls, who make me want to lock my daughter away until she is 30.
At 25, I can barely tolerate being around anyone who is in high school for more than 5 min. The length of time has grown shorter and shorter with the years. Maturity--- physical, mental, and emotional-- is lacking.
Now, if we were talking about someone in their mid 20s and someone in their mid 30s, I believe that 10 year difference is exceptable. They both a adults, have more in common, and have more similiar levels of maturity.
It's people in their 20s who check out high school girls, who make me want to lock my daughter away until she is 30.
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Man alive! I hope her Dad is reading this! Unless you live in Russia or something, checking out a 14 year old is totally unaccepatable at 24.
Zoomer, I know what you mean. Highschoolers are not all bad, but for the most part I want to move on to more adult company within the space of 30 minutes.
Zoomer, I know what you mean. Highschoolers are not all bad, but for the most part I want to move on to more adult company within the space of 30 minutes.
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