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OK got a problem...people are spreading rumors about me sayign that i am player and go from girl to girl...when i have only had four girlfriends...and i am single now..it is so stupid but i can't do anythin about it cause i am christian and it is not the christian thing to do...does nayone have any advice you can give me.. and prayer please...cause it really hurts.. i dont' treat girls like that..thanks and God Bless You All

Mark
 

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It's hard when others spread rumors around about you. Try not to let it get to you too much. I know it's not as easily said as done. Keep in mind that God knows the truth, and you know the truth. In the end (even now for that matter) there's only one that any of us will ever have to answer to, and that is God.

Praying God will grant you some peace in this situation :pray:
 
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Hi Mark!

I know it can be very hurtful when others say things about you that are not true. But you are wrong in saying that you can't do anything. You can. You can prove them wrong. This won't happen overnight. But your actions will prove whether their words are true. If you are not a player, than the way you treat girls and what you say about them will prove that you are the person you know in your heart that you are. Soon others will see that what is being said about you is not true. Make sense?

:pray: for you!
 
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