Jon, google search it and go back and check the links that are in this post.
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Shesjr said:My 7 y/o son is in the process of getting diagnosed. We go this Monday for the final evaluation. He is in second grade and since pre-school the teachers have been gently trying to tell us that he has attention issues. So finally we took the steps to have him checked out.
Our biggest issue with meds is the appetite supression. Our son weighs 62lbs and is on the 95 percentile for height. I would consider him a moderately pickey eater. We are worried that he will loose to much weight. The doctor assures us that they watch that pretty close. We still don't think he can afford to even loose 5 lbs. We are not considering the holistic approach. We feel the medications out there are pretty good in treating this but like I said fear he won't eat anything. Any suggetions?
JonathanSDA living word said:they just thought i was on too much sugar. BUt but i justcant turn off my mind. I too zone into other realms it beats this reality anyday beleDAt oh now im typing like will smith. i would like to find resourses for different forms of schizophrenia along with add i think it would de depremental to my recovery. <****at has got to be the longets run on sentence ive ever write! oh yah so if any of you could give me some links it would be great!
training4utopia said:As one who is overcoming ADHD I hope my advice can help. I was on medication all throughout my childhood. Had (and still have some) all the classics, impulse, compulse, racing mind, problems paying attention, imaginations so creative I could get an anxiety attack (even if it wasn't something bad.) The problem almost totally is focus. A problem with focus can lead to many other things, but the root cause is an inability to focus. When we can focus, we can't snap out. Our mind is ours to control. We have to tap into the part of our brain thats weak and exercise it. If you don't want medication, which I don't, reading is essential. We have to catch this problem and contain it. Most of us are on a 5 minute daydream before we can even snap out of it. When we decide to pay attention we'll have a ton of nonsense trying to break down the barrier of paying attention. Believe it or not we have no choice but to focus. Instead of focusing on whats in front of us, or what we're listening too, we get too caught up in our logic, reason and or imagination. This is why we can be near genius even if you don't have much of an education, but yet still appear dumb to those around us. WE'RE INVERTING WHAT IS MEANT TO BE EXTRAVERTED. This can be done, it's hard and takes extreme dedication. It also means a commitment to give up alot of things we like about it. Thats right, you'd be surprised how much of this stuff we like. read the battle field of the mind by Joyce Meyer. I was never the same after reading this book. I had no idea how much I could control this. It took dedication and alot of praying and effort, but the progress I've made is staggering. And it's only been a little over a month, no meds or anything. I have been beating this thing like crazy all with the help of God and commitment. This can be done easier than you think. We just need the truth. We're simply not controlling our mind. I wasn't even able to pay attention if a pin dropped in the room. When I went out to eat, I could hear every fork scrape every plate, evey persons conversation, the cooks frantically serving orders and the cash register all at the same time. But I couldn't tell you a word my family just spoke at my own table. If I looked on a cluttered table for my car keys, I'd look over the entire clutter and never see 'em, instead of individually looking for the keys. It's ours to beat, I promise. We're too smart and too creative not too. I promise you wondering and pondering is not good. Analizing and rationalizing is not good. Reason and logic can be our worst enemy. Once we can beat this, than we can use all those skills to our true advantage.
I kind of thought that after I read what you wrote. Thanks. What med's did you take?training4utopia said:Shesjr I should have pointed out that I was referring to adult ADHD/ADD. Once he's grown he might could do this even easier since he'll already have an idea how to grasp it since he was one meds. A child would have to have adult maturity and intelligence to even attempt what I wrote. Also children that don't even have ADD do not have the life skills required to understand impulse control and etc....
training4utopia said:Ritalin from 6-13. Then I started going off and on of it for a while. When I was 18 I started taking concerta. Same stuff except it's slow release. I started trippin' like I was on speed with the concerta. Ritalin peaks and drops pretty quickly. If that stuff is ever put in front of your kid, get a second oppinion. They use Straterra for kids your's age, but it has been known to give children suicide thoughts and such. These drugs are the same thing as coke and speed, you want to start of with as low of a dose as possible. How many miligrams are they suggesting for him? Hopefully 10 or less.
aspie2x said:My son is 10 and had ADHD, he also has High Functioning Autism. We have tried Dexanphetamine which helped him concentrate better but at the doses he needed to be helpful, it caused Agression, sleeplessness and poor appetite.
we also tried the long release Ritalin which you only need to take once a day. Again though it helped him concentrate, he became mouthy and talked back always, which he didnt do before, nor does he now. He also took really big risks. He couldnt see he was putting himself in danger.
Now he is on normal Ritalin and it works a bit. You can tell when he hasnt had it. However he should have a higher dose to be more useful but it causes agression so he is only on a minimal dose.
Ive tried the fish oil and magnesium an improvong his diet to no avail.
Its all trial and error. What works for some may not work for you.
Wow thank you so much for your imput. We are on our 5th day of 10mg of the medication and there is some improvment. His teacher reported on Monday and Tuesday this week (we have off the rest of this week for Thanksgiving,,oh BTW Happy Thanksgiving my CF friendstraining4utopia said:I'll be sure to keep you and yours all in my prayers. Ritalin does have a side affect with aggression. To make matters worse I grew up in an angry house as well. My rage has been out of control since I was 12. I have only recently do to conviction and revelation by the Holy Spirit been able to confront this. I was given a drug called 'rispirdol' in conjunction with ritalin to combat the anger when I was 13. Then I was prescribed 'elavil' so I could go to sleep. Always try to keep doses as low as possible. Talk with the doctors so you can try to find the happy medium. I was doped up on something nearly my entire childhood, it all started with a measly 5 miligrams of ritalin. Than 10, than 20. Then new drugs and more new drugs. Keep an eye out for elevating trends in the amount of medication your child is getting. Also always try to find the flaws. Encourage your children and learn this with them, so that when they get older they can start taking care of this on there own. Autism is a different story and will probably always require medication. Again I'll keep you all in my prayers. The older a child with ADD/ADHD gets the more intelligent he'll likely become. The imagination of someone with ADD is usally always brilliant, but still needs to be contained. The reason is because even though an imagination can bring intelligence, it can also bring fears, anxieties and emotional problems. The reason is because the stimuli released when someone solves something do to imgaination produces excitement. If one is not able to contain this they'll harp on it and not be able to snap out. This varies do to the persons condition, and usally is something to look out for in teen years and early adulthood. It's also something thats easy to overcome as long as the person is aware of what it is andhow it works. While this sounds strange to most people, keep in mind that the things a person with ADD can figure out are at times mind boggling. We have a very unique ability to simply reason, analize and get something out of it. Logic and intelligence can also breed agression, because what they realize fast takes time for most to comprehend. This in turn will test their patience with all sorts of things in life.