Besides, I hate root beer….
WHAT?!?! Pizza without ROOTBEER??? Can't imagine that...
NBF, do you unerstand that I am not "REFUTING CALVINISM", but rather "ASSERTING RESPONSIBLE-GRACE"? I feel like I often "tread on eggshells". The Reformed view is that "God regenerates the Elect's hearts, WITHOUT their asking or consent; they are too depraved to even CONSIDER receiving Jesus BEFORE God unilaterally and unasked changes their hearts. Once the hearts are changed, then INVARIABLY - UNAVOIDABLY - IRRESISTIBLY (words Calvinists have used THEMSELVES) the belief flows, the perseverance flows, the faith flows FROM that regenerated heart."
But if I say, "Regeneration CAUSES belief" you all seem to get MAD. If I say "salvation is IMPOSED or FORCED or COMPELLED" you all get MAD. How is it that a HEART-CHANGE can be ACCOMPLISHED without permission, without the person asking, without any choice whatsoever of the person --- but it is NOT "forced or compelled or imposed"? "Force/compel/impose" simply means "doing something to them
without their consent".
The idea of FORCE is wrong. Enabling someone to do something is not forcing them to do that thing, not when it is the one enabled who must then do that thing. Encouraged, yes.
If God makes the decision about our salvation, and 100% of those He chooses WILL be saved, and 100% of those He neglects WILL NOT, then there is no reason not to use terms like "forced" or "compelled" or "imposed". It is not enough to say that "a man's will CHANGES to WANT to follow God" --- the man certainly had no choice IN that changed-will or IN that want.
Believing in Christ is something that only spiritually alive people can do. In order to believe savingly the man must first be made alive spiritually. He cannot believe in Christ savingly otherwise.
Can you demonstrate Scripturally that "salvic-belief requires first being made alive spiritually"? Or that "only elect are sincerely called, and/or equipped to answer that call"?
Jesus said, "The kingdom of Heaven is LIKE..." You say, "you take that parable too far"; but He said it, "the kingdom of Heaven is LIKE..." There was a call to the FEAST; some came, some refused. There is no difference between the call to the CAME, and the call to the REFUSED; there is nothing in there that says "the king had anything to do with who CAME and who REFUSED." What was the POINT of the parable? Why did Jesus TELL it? Look to the entire CONTEXT, NBF. In Matt21, Jesus tells of two sons; one agrees to DO the father's wish, but DOES NOT; the other refuses
but afterwards changes and does. Which did the will of the father? Jesus says, "tax-men and harlots will get to Heaven BEFORE you. BECAUSE John came to you in the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him; but the tax-men and harlots DID believe; and YOU won't even feel REMORSE!" Who was "ELECT" here? Who? No one. The Jews were BLASTED for their unbelief, the sinners lauded for their belief. Belief causes election, NBF; election does not cause belief.
Next in ch21, is the parable of the LAND-owner; where the servents rebelled and killed the king's messengers; then the king sent his SON,
and they even killed his SON! (This is UNDENIABLY reflecting His OWN CRUCIFIXION!) Jesus said, "THEREFORE the kingdom of God will be taken away from you; BECAUSE you have rejected the very cornerstone; he who falls on this stone will be broken to pieces; but on whomever it falls, it will scatter like the dust." Can you deny that Jesus was berating them for DISBELIEVING? Why would he berate the UNELECT for doing what they COULD NOT AVOID? No, he is condemning them for CHOOSING not to BELIEVE.
In the parable of Matt22:2-14, how many people were NOT INVITED? Can you name ONE? Is there any reason given why they refused? One prefered going to his farm, another had MORE PRESSING BUSINESS. So, everyone in the streets were invited. Everyone, NBF, everyone. No one was missed, according to the parable. Those who REFUSED, "were not worthy"; there is nothing that hints their "unworthiness" was decided by the KING, it was all about their REFUSING the invitation. (Contrast this with Acts13:46, "you JEWS count YOURSELVES unworthy")
Further strength in this thought is given in vs11; one man CAME, but REFUSED the clothes; THIS is the person you say "only accompanied but never really believed" (he was WITH them but never OF them). It was the KING who decided not to give him the clothes --- right? No; the man refused them himself. He was there in BODY, but his HEART was not there! How much percent was the parable about the KING'S CHOICE, and how much percent was it about EVERY PERSON'S DECISION? Where is the election in that?
"For many are called, but few are chosen" --- to insert a dogma that says,
"only those who were FEW-CHOSEN-ELECT-BY-GOD" --- denies the context, NBF; there is NO difference between the call of those who WERE chosen, and the call of those who were NOT. Those who refused --- they just didn't WANT to. Those who accepted --- they wanted to; entirely of their own choice. Nothing of the KING.
Jesus would not have said any of these parables, if He really believed in election. There was COMPLETE VOLITION in the two sons, COMPLETE VOLITION in the vineyard, COMPLETE VOLITION in the feast-invitations...
This is the proof. The natural man is man as he is born, unsaved, and unregenerate. He cannot understand spiritual things, because he has no capacity to do so. Spiritual things are foolishness to him. Gibberish. An unknowable foreign language. In order for him to understand spiritual things, God must regenerate his heart, making him alive spiritually, so that he can hear and understand the spiritual words of the Gospel.
You know what?
Believing in Jesus is NOT a SPIRITUAL THING that's limited ONLY TO THE REGENERATED! I oughtta know. I was there. I was not regenerate, and I knew it. But I was fully capable of hearing about Jesus. I heard about evolution, and Special Creation; I found millions of times more credibility in design rather than chance. Billions. Trillions. Reprobate that I was, I came to Him and asked: "Are You real? Do You want Me?" Jeremiah says, "if you seek Me you will FIND Me, if you search with all your heart". He did reveal Himself to me; and I believed.
It was THROUGH THAT BELIEF, that received Him into my heart, that I BECAME spiritual, NBF.
A non-spiritual-man can hear about Jesus, and can believe. There is nothing in Scripture that denies this. Through that belief
he becomes spiritual, and understands spiritual things.
The Gospel message is so compelling, so desirable to the newly regenerated spiritual man, that he quite readily believes, and receives.
Reality and Scripture deny this. Look at what I just quoted from you, and now read Rom10:14-15: "How shall they BELIEVE in whom they have not heard? How shall they HEAR without a preacher?" Think about that, NBF ---
without a preacher they WON'T BELIEVE! If they had been DIVINELY REGENERATED,
FIRST, then God would have found SOME WAY for them to have HEARD,
or they would have believed ANYWAY. Paul plainly says "without a preacher they WILL NOT BELIEVE. So it is PREACHING that causes conviction/belief that causes regeneration; it is NOT regeneration that "leads to conviction/belief".
Without a preacher, HOW CAN they believe?
Without a preacher, HOW CAN they
be elect?
How many African natives, and South American natives were saved BEFORE preachers came? What percentage? None of them believed. Why? Because they hadn't HEARD. Did God CHANGE His election-will,
to ACCOMPANY the missionaries? For centuries before missionaries came, God conveniently UNELECTED all of them? Does that make sense?
"Without a preacher, how CAN they believe?" Certainly not by election...