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Accountablity when Single

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Greenriser said:
Accountable of our emotions,

This is the toughest nut to crack i can tell you that. When you're overcome by them, you'll die(metaphorical) to get out. Been there and it's really a biig struggle. Only thing that kept me going was Jesus and understanding people to talk with.

Greenriser said:

Hmm, u mean bible truth or your own character? Well, i think for the latter it's good friends and reliable ones..where u can joke with and talk serious with. That would be a good mix for me. But you might like one who is serious all the time. Depends on you. For the former, probably someone who knows the bible more. Doesn't need to be older than you but usually that's the case.

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celebacy etc.
Now that's a big question mark. er...ok i guess this requires a friend whom u can really talk heart to heart. Oh it can be the same one as i mentioned above who is not afraid to correct you and who knows you well. (u'll have to develop a deep relationship for him to know you well)..it takes 2 hands to clap. So if you want a good friend, you gotta make the effort to be a good friend. Also, if the other person is not responding or whatever, probably both of you won't click anyway so move on to another person..

Hope it helps.
 
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