Oh yeah, just to mention, so that it doesn’t seem like I was just throwing out opinions, 4hurting, since I don’t always mark book-chapter-verse but just inject it into conversation or writing:
1 Thes 5:14 Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men. 15 See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men. 16 Rejoice evermore. 17 Pray without ceasing.
18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
I try to keep this in mind, especially when I share life experience. I usually don’t share any openly unless I’ve already found the treasures in them, or at least some of it. Good for gleaning by others, I tend to find useful things in the life tales of others. After all, we are living epistles. Good to share though, even when trying to work things out
I understand that.
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What else?
Weaknesses, eh? I think one of my worst past weaknesses was getting involved with women that were more of a work(by far) than an alliance. I mean still I get drawn to people that are going through things, that’s good, not everyone can, nor do they need to in full. However some can and some do. Some do and can’t. Some do and get romantically involved at some point, and that’s bad.
Life lesson is: you can’t change or better anyone, that is for the work of God the Holy Spirit. If you get yourself involved with someone that is not in the same place as you, let go, don’t work at it so hard to help that person; not so close. If it’s a bad match, the least stable person is going to be the greater hindrance for both, dragging the other down etc.
But I don’t need anyone that does what I do, did, or will do, but just that they are there somewhere where I am, and I there for her for whatever it is she is doing, especially. But this is just imho maybe. I mean for those that truly are set for a life of singleness, well that is actually a very good blessing, as long as you use that time focusing in on the Lord. Just get the heart straight, God will answer it if it is something that He put there for a purpose. We can resist that, however.. I mean in either case I'm sure.
Along that road, as you draw closer to God, He'll let ya know
maybe not all the specifics, but enough to get you pointed in the right direction. And it's good to always be doing those heart checks, because things can change, for the better if you are holdin' onto the Lord with both hands.